PAGE 16, WEDNESDAY OCTOBER 27, 1982, WHITBY FREE PRESS Hockey begms By MEW EVERALL Robbie Ord and Shane Hoskin scored all of the goals from Belleville in their 8 to 5 Major 'Pee Wee win over Brooklin- Whitby Pat and Mario's in the opening game of the Lakeshore League at Belleville on October 17. Ord's three goals and three assists, and Hos- kin's five goals, amount- ed to a superlative win- ning effort. Whitby got off to a three-goal start before Belleville got on the score sheet. The game was tied at 4 to 4 at the end of the second period, but Belleville was just too much for the visitors and scored three unanswered goals to end the game. Justin Moore scored two goals for Pat and Mario's with Troy McKay, Mike Reier and Scott Luik each getting singles. I I I II I"I'II~4*~*ý4 ' A 4A. Swimming is taking off iiiWhitby, with more than 90 members in the Iroquois Swim Club. The club won its first meet Sunday against teams from Scar- borough, Pickering and Port Hope. - Free Press Staff Photo The Church Speaks w Sponsored by the WHITBY MINISTERIAL ASSOCIATION DON K-NN EDY TRUSTEE (Whltby - Durham Region - Public) Showed well at the polls 2 years ago. Has done homework. Capable and ready. Plenty of time and ability to represent you well. The newly-formed Durham Region Alz- heimer Society wiil meet in the day care section of the Oshawa General Hospital on Oc- tober 28 at 7:30 p.m. They are a local affi- liate of the National Alz- heimer Society and are basically a family sup- port organization. Alzheimer's disease is a progressive irrever- GARAGE SALE The Henry Street High School Music Department is holding a garage sale on Satur- day, October 23 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at the cafetoriumentrance. Space is $10 to rent. Tables are $2 extra. Hot dogs and coffee will be available. In case of rain, the sale will be held inside. To reserve space cail666-2907. sible brain disease for which there is no known cause or treatment. The problems families face in dealing with the long- term care of a patient and the emotional, financial and social stress are immense. The organization exists primarily to assist families to find support services in the community, to inform and make the public aware of the disease, to raise funds for re- search, to help people find the answers to the legal questions arising from the disease and last but not least, to provide fellowship at the meetings for those who are coping with the disease in their family. Further information may be obtained by con- tacting 725-8085 or 725- 1562. - 1, By THE REVEREND JACK RONEY Rector All Saints' Anglican Church Marcia and Greg had known each other for years. All their friends were getting married, and Marcia was worried about her future with Greg. At last, in September Greg asked her to marry him next June. But Marcia wasn't sure. Did she really love him? How could she be sure? Was-there a way of finding out? Her friends were full of advice. One suggested that they live together for a while. However, Mar- cia knew that wouldn't help a bit. Neither her paren- ts nor Greg's would hear of that. Another friend suggested that they go to an Ecumenical Pre- Marital course conducted by the churches in town. That made sense, and Greg and Marcia learned a lot, but ... were they sure they wanted to be married? Few questions are harder to decide for a couple. Are we in love? No one else can tell you the answer. You have to decide. A check list might help a little. What do we really share in common? Our goals, our faith, our interests. Have we both learned to accept personal responsibility for our mistakes, and to say sorry, and to begin afresh? Do we allow each other 'breathing time' so that we can pursue some past times, sports or hobbies on our own? Do I respect him (ber) and enjoy introducing him (ber) to family and friends? Do you find that decisions are being made without your (or their) consent? Are you so tied to having everything now that you leave nothing to build for together in the future? What would life be like without that person you may marry? Now turn to the quality of your love, and discover whether either or both of you have more than a phy- sical attraction for one another. Years ago Henry Drummond wrote a marvellous book on love, "The Greatest Thing in the World." Drummond used St. Paul's Hymn on Love, which was read last year at the wedding of Prince Charles and Princess Diana. The suggestion ran like this: read. through St. Paul's words (which are set out below), and every time the word 'love' appears insert your own name. After the immediate shock wears off discover where you need to grow as a person. You might then re-read the passage and try placing the name of Jesus Christwhere 'love' appears. How amazing- ly accurate the description then is! And it's obvious too that any growth in love can only occur when the couple seeks help and assistance from beyond them- selves, from God Himself. Here is Paul's Hymn. "Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous, or conceited, or proud; love is not ilJ-mannered, or selfish, or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs'; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up: its faith, hope and patience never fail. Love is eternal..." (1 Corinthians 13-4-8). You may insert your fiance's name where the word 'love' appears in the passage. But you can only hope for a change in him (or her) as you your- self develop in patience, generosity, forgiveness, etc. Is it love? What kind of love is it? You must decide, and accept the present limitations you both have now, and seek to mature, and grow in your faith and trust in one another. Alzheimer Society