WHITBY FREE PRESS, THURSDAY, I DE-CEMBER 6, 1973, PAGE SANTA US CGMING 10 arn. SAT. DEC. Sth.!v 44 Bond Street West Oshawa STORES OPEN 9:30 a.m. TIL 9 p.m. EXCEPT SATURDAYS 9:30 a.m. TIL 6 p.mé A Bond Photograp hic Retailers of Fine Photographic [quipment Easy Credif Torms Avoilable No Dowiî Payrnenf Requiredl Bond Towers Mail Chargez Accepted 579-1701 44 Bond Street West (S *U« BOT Sho BodTwesMi Feminine Fashions for every size and pocketbook For brightening a womans wvardrobe, we have oan excellent selection of gowns, long skirts with complîmentary tops and elegont Piazza Ponts, ýTOM MADE ;ANO SHGES lVilla rW t -ri o Bond Towers Malil, Downtown, Tel. 576-7152 723-8833 Cricket7s i BOUTIQUE clothing for the up-to-date wvomen Bond Towers MA OPEN 9:30 a.m. TO 9:00 p.m. 723-6511 HI LDERGA RDE Dear Hildergarde: 1 arn at about rny wits end. I arn married but very unhappily. My husband bas a serious drinking problem, he won't try and straighten up and when drunk, he threat- ens to harm me. In addition, I have two sons frorn a previous marriage who my husband bas neyer accepted and, because of this, rny mother is raising thern. I also have found a man who is very nice and he thinks a lot of me and I him. He is single but will accept my children. Wbat should I do? T.V., Whitby Dear T.V.: You have a problem true enough but it isil't ail that difficuit. Many wives wlio have liad problerns similar to yours have taken out Legal Separationi Orders which give the husbands time to think things over and straighten themnselves out. If they fait to do this tben there is always the Divorce Court. 1 suggest you be very sure that tbe action you take is the right one. Tbere is no sense in living in misery but one must be certain they are right before they take that final step. As for the new 'friend' he wilt. understand your feelings and rnay even be able to belp you reach a decision but it miust be yours and yours alone. Hildergarde. Dear Hildergarde: arn separatedfrom myhbusband and-have found a newý love wbo I arn sure -thinks the world of me. He treats me like a human being and is very tender and loving. The problern, however, is he was- once married and is separated but now doesn't want to re-rnarry. He says he neyer wiIl again yet he says he loves me and wants me to live with him. Thankfully there are no children involved but I still don't know if l'dl be doing the right thing by living with him. H.E., Pickering Dear H.E.: This is the 2Oth century, a great rnany people are living together witbout being rnarried. I don't say it is a proper thing but these people, rnany 'of them, seern to be quite happy. Perhaps you should put your moral values aside and try to find some happiness. Who knows, there still rnight be wedding belis in the future. Oshaw_.1*