l l. wfameimmtmamstttav . i ~â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"»â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"â€"vJ l 7 imitrlllltmltlli“ , [â€"_â€"â€"_,‘_,,_._.__._____,vi,d#n » 7 7 7W 7†__ -râ€". ’ l l.l:l llsz ll) THE CHRONICLE 'I'he sex talk LWW_____7 #..__,W.V_~ _ __..__.â€".___ Vi.__J NO problems With in the twin cities to live if conditions got what they wanted ’ . . are not acceptable, but I don't think What do they want now? WEStSlde dump ï¬nding fault with the dump. city or A pound of flesh? you don t crave ' I have read with concern the de‘IIï¬IIOPgIS warranlted.h ‘ Br] , . _ recent articles regarding [he 1 _ '9 53?“ P909; W 0 a: an; â€am he cover of the July ISSUC‘Of Cosmopolitan, featuring a alleged odours iii the area near the ? “it? a so $02?" . ute to l. e "e d (1 er nearly naked Cameron Dlal blares the headline: “The ; dump. Westvale iii particular, in (3†(d lukmpan “l: expansmnfa: _ No. 1 Sex Move He Graves, Dare to do it...you won’t which 1 live. antl I would offer the “m†I e ‘1'“? I“ happv I .‘ t . _ . “RS?" regret it!" . following considerations. guy“). were 0} d.ud many miles - 7 ‘ ‘ .~ 33' ï¬ "'32 I know this because my oldest daughter M350“ who turns i l have “mum in â€n. “hunk. (“Ml dlld â€"33 hf'd ‘0 Pal high?’ --{ W i " “i: 25;; nlne-years-old today, read it to me in line at the grocery store. l subdivision for around 1:3 vears lax†9“" I" “mm“- of me†uï¬mfln‘ ’" â€"t then asked me what it meant. Unprepared for such a question and would state that perhaps-three wigs“. I an] thankltll forfthe dump. mule “a?!“ W i from my curious daughter. I replied. “That magazine is geared or four days a year we can piek up a as I: 1‘1“} “Sim? patio (Tank: Wm ‘addtm may: ’9: {01’ adults. Mason." And I left it at that. slight odour but it is nothing that is , . It â€:1 l e" lump 'Sd‘“ Tin" MW†.3??? Pleased to have dodged this line of questioning. but dissat< ‘ not tolerable. and [ might add that I “ï¬t an 'proutlts 5%“: _ â€my“ ‘3 . Wm‘ ' . isï¬ed with my response. I sought advtce from Dr. lean Kil- t alwavs have wintltms open in ll]\‘ 1 ‘ Wm!“ Pm!) e 0 .‘ L arta. an mum“ ' f†' bourne. internationally recognized for her groundbreaking house. I beliet e there could he some “‘9 ‘ “3 '5 L 0'18me “9mg everything W M :1“ work on the image ofwomen in advertising. She is also the cre- exaggeratioii of facts iii these arti- " can I†be â€my “I" rare “mm“ 5"†“Wife ‘£.,§‘{irt;a“ ator of the renowned Killing Us Sofrly film series, and authour cles. "“mag‘ld' .' hope â€L" deï¬ed "‘ï¬â€™ ‘ :m_fl_ ’ ' "f1" .. * ' i of award~winning books (2m? Buy Me Love: How Advertising Perhaps the most important fact ovals cti'nslder T}: Dong??? Till?) mm,“ it a?» 3 Changes my Way "/9 Think and Fed Mm! Parents Can Do to . is [hill “the dump was [here lung “nus I “ comp dim†(1‘ “A. t.“ mmmw w" Protect Their Kids, and 50 Sexy 50 $00!}: The New Sexualized before the subdivisions were." West are aluays other places to_live '9' We: ‘ ’ : Childhood. 1 vale lnt‘llltlbtl. No one that 1 ant mm“ “h",‘m' not happy With thl‘" WW 6 a“: 7‘ "In 50 Sexy 30 Soon. l tell the anecdote about when my ‘ aware of has been forced to buv a “mu" msmcm‘c†ï¬n . ‘ heâ€: 33‘9â€,wa daughter was it and she asked me. 'Mom. what's oral sex?†- ‘ propertv tn an) of these siihdivi- Max:532: ‘ “I. , .‘ '."‘, l“; Kilbournc told me over the phone â€" stints. ‘ ‘ of†in“ â€â€˜.fl"*fï¬‚ï¬ 7,, from herhomein Boston. Ma. \l \l‘hl l . l - l â€â€1““ it prtixpt-(‘ht' ““3ҠWhat’s the point 0f Momg a»; I was like you: Marshall, and . \ ,‘t l. I took a drive around the area v or , 2 St. N" Suite ’zo_ v‘ if.) thought. Oh God. I tn not ready for \R | 5 i looked dl a l0l‘dl niap â€" hetore ptir- pursuing ODA case. mm] m. _’ " ifï¬e 5 this.’ Then I asked her. 'Well. what do t'liasing a home. the) would know i . q 7 ‘ , ’cgmm‘gï¬a’p‘y" ' %~ T you think it means?‘ and she said. 1 about the |otation of the dump and W If" ", “â€1â€" "l "lynch and mummw‘ .. . â€My ,3 think it's when you talk about it.‘ } it mold he (Ull’sldt‘l’t‘tl iii their det‘i ll 3““: the "mi" ’_ “9“â€! I m . . g . ... :. "And of course. I was tempted to * , stun lhere are plenn ol other areas “m"g' Waterloo ““th 4"“ the ‘ i, ‘ L I 5333 111315 “13mm Kilhourtie said Wi‘h ‘ . , ' (anadtans Opposed to l‘louridation ’ <' - ' - a laugh. “But I didn't. I needed to tell " , ‘ l Mm 7 7 V 777777777 7 i i her what oral sex was because I didn't ‘~ . . 0 want her to be humiliated in school. * . Confessmns of a h dro ant . .. ‘ information from me. And as a result. 1 4 e all bet Ulllt‘ our parents iii smite ways “Pd!“ “I†I011d*â€â€œiiundrl'~ 3:3my;.ywtlflgzrsiflngaiï¬lgï¬hg I MARSHALL ‘ Wllmpm. â€I†in.“ “(One and whatever .v\s lot heat and air conditioning. our place was front ‘ ' l WARD } breathless pledges “e tailte as teenagers always set a little cooler in the winter than most. “5‘“ in [how “minim“ I “(mm L.-. A . 7 7, ï¬t “ht-n \ve sav. "l uill iii-\er In» like them " â€if ‘1(Ihil.tlren.: .:‘[.)atl..,._it',s FREE/[Nb in suggest askingvotir Child questions like. 'lNhat do you think it i ‘ “I" “""““""'\‘ â€"ll'n' “A†"‘ ‘ â€â€N' ‘ . ‘ ‘ l “up" My . N†freezing " (“huntâ€) l means?" and ‘What makes you think you'd like to know more ‘ I†"" “N" I "m “ mm" “mm " h" l P] l( l ()1 ‘ mm and I“ in" mm â€I â€w ‘1‘"va h" l I about tliat?' Because kids totlav have a kind of veneer of l I "mm H "I†m“ “‘ mm“ m" I‘““â€"â€â€˜ l ‘ l I)†d sweater â€I “M " hm“ Inimufnc‘ l I sopliisltt’ation, but it often isn't'vt‘rv deep, and sometimes ‘ ‘ luv walling; .nmiml the house snapping; BOIJRKI" l (lining the summer months Dad lts “hat the\'tethinkingis t'oinpletelv(hilt-rent." ’ â€h kw“ "H" â€WW “1‘“ “W "H â€m,†l m“ hm will“? “U â€H.†mlâ€) I told l)r, killioutne that niagalines like (Iosiiiopolitan 3 ’ “""‘1‘|“"-“I\"1 â€â€˜mwm‘l‘m “Mum" ‘ (hmFNmr‘ ‘ reniintl me of sot‘ielv's obsession with se\ atitl appearances. l“. _ \ou. though. lull] Dalton \ltltlllll' ~ 1 , . ' . . t ‘ .. . . . l . and that it tonterns me as a parent oi [no girls \ou re not 3 gm. (ha: my I“ “a“. M†â€my twinâ€. ~, I\ s tit-Litmus plan to take more oi nit 3 alone .. sht'188lll‘t’d "w l W‘- H" â€l" â€"“ “WW“ mm“ 4Wâ€! W W†"V 8 v ‘ liltlllt‘\. l'ni â€m “If" lion â€â€˜8‘“ more ‘ ' [he niaga/ine t‘tiv'ers toda\ are horrendous. partictilarh I l â€â€˜ “m“ â€mm“ “W "H W" "†â€Wâ€: “"‘ ‘. ii . l "Wm“ m. “in “I†thr- liberal WV theories aimed at girls and voting women. And the magazines ‘ I l â€11““ l""““ l " ~' fl... . ‘ "â€"m'm 1“" hm.†n" " enough to It†themselves are mostly a vehicle [or advertising as the editorial I i . â€1- “as lllt)ll\illl‘ll li\ llllllit“.. as I am ‘5 r us how tti take tltl\illl[tlg(' of these . . ‘ '\ ‘ . \. , , ‘ l . . _ ' | ~ ' _ _ . _ . _ _ ‘ content tilteti reinfortes the advertising through artttles (iii 1 l . [ti-b It s .i lllt lllllt lll slit to kt I‘ll as lllllt ll ol 4 4;? 4 â€N “ TM bl†I “J“ “l H†-' “huh [â€1 k " him to he ht'atitiftil Ind lose weight " ‘ f t â€â€˜3 ‘ 4‘“ 4‘ P"“""" “’ ' ‘ ~â€â€™ ‘l""“' " "“ ‘5 v "" [‘"m'm‘" “"_I““Ld'â€â€34"" I‘;““"".‘ ‘ She added. 'Zflntllwhat aniziles nieabotit the niagazniet'ov ‘ â€W“ ""l"'â€~Ҡâ€WU-2‘ WA ‘ " u' N H n ‘H m. "‘ ml" 1“ v‘ m I H l ers is how interrhangeahle the) are. and how many different 1 . things like ti-tnoli- ionltol lit-t etagt' BRIAN “1‘ ‘m‘ told. the H†peak “In" fl" "3"“ ‘ Wins lhev can sav. ‘ The No. 1 Sex Move Ile (lravesi' over the I . tritllt‘ls, lint ill.†s a \ltll\ lot .llllllllt‘t il.i\ BOU‘R‘KF i tisls Although. in) theory say s il l “jun" â€(a vearhet'aiise Poul)!“ are tlravm to that. but it's total l um, [hi- mm.†â€1 tin lust smart up.†l . eu-rvone moves to the till-peak time. IV redundant ., hill lost around the ( oi iii-i Mu“ mm L doesn’t that make It the peak time? ‘ (liven that my voting daughters are inundated with unreal- iltete. ltitkmt: Ill the sliatlows' lnt llllt’ll‘\lt‘tl to see ‘ > â€WW "W ("â€5" 1W†i†ll‘ d' home. “m. images â€[ wtitiit‘lt and narrow Views of beauty in media. “N in,“ I.†| A,“ about 1‘, he hm" mm hv the ""f‘fl'†\"lllt li oi totirse makes a big tlillert'iit e tonipared to Killiotirne encouraged me to continue being a voice that gives (“I "um.“ that I". â€(m "H p the â€hull!" I" mum“ the days when \u' had three teenage girls at home them 1 healthier more sitht‘ wa of seein themselves and taint- .tt the same lllllt' as the longest strt'tt h of heat “I“. "W “WM" “VFW“ “mm 'i"†â€l '3‘"â€d""‘d the “6r“ around them p0. y ' g L ' ‘ nett- had in sortie tune lust-d to he .lll ardent opp“ underwear I hope that the next time one of my daughters asks me a llt'lll ol .iir tontlitioning hut sen-nil teats ol not IV" “WM"‘W‘I we “'0‘" the “'"m' ‘lmmnl". fl" ‘9‘" -- rown~u )-- ucstion I'll he ready with a more grown-u “NHL! able u, 4.11, while hung the “.3“th ol “yum“ eral days at a tune, or perhaps tioi at all, But Diana :“w†thin wit/Jill satisfy-her ctiriosity'while preserving the won? up at idiot o't lock Ill the morning takes the edge till “'5‘ ‘l“' WWW" “'3'“ “' ‘k‘il' with the wrinkles. l'm derltil innocence ofchildhtxitl ‘ . that l‘“'â€â€˜ (“m Rh not sure what she meant ' ‘ lo be honest. if in) livtlro hill goes up sigiiiï¬t‘anil) â€â€˜ l the rest til you are all iii some serious trouble. Some "WI" ““11"!" fl "N’Mht’fflflhf’ "’53 K001; FM Marshall Ward is a â€mall-1}“, and "nestling reporter ‘ might tall ll cheap but I preler thrifty l‘or years we "mnmmm’lu "I" “9 WIN“ We'mailm Britain's urh‘omeal marshal! (turd@holnmil mm . . l have kept the lights on to a minimum and made sure I’I'Ollfh’lefm mm A L ‘ ' t . i, . 4________â€"_â€"â€"_