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Learning to get along well with people, while still retaining one‘s individuality, is the most satisfying and rewarding study. Those who manage to pass this ‘course‘ are the most fortunate people on earth Geoff Fellows operates the Human Resource Development Institute, P.O. Box 642, Cambridge N1R 5W1, Tel. 623â€"0283, providing effectiveness training for business and industry. « Decks + Cedar T&G + Gazebos *« Lumber + Cedar Trim + 885â€"1702 A lot of this trouble is caused by people not fully realizing that the overextension of a strength can become a weakness. For instance, it‘s good to be selfâ€"reliant, but not to become a domineering knowâ€"itâ€"all. It‘s good to be selfâ€"assertive, but not to become aggressive; to be thrifty, but not to become miserly, and so on There are those in middle managéfi:;nt who are smiling and pleasant, even obsequious to their bosses, but snarling marâ€" tinets to those unfortunate enough to be under their direction. It‘s curious how such a person will continue to believe that the fault lies with others. A man once applied to me for a job and told me a long, sad story about how his former employers had failed to take the opportunities to advance him as he should have been After listening to him complain about what monsters his former employers had been, I decided not to join the list and told him we didn‘t have what he was looking for. There are those whose poor spouses and children dread their homecoming and sigh with relief when they leave. Usudlly they will be no more successful in business than they are at home. The SuperStore For Cedar & Decks Then there are those rugged individualists who seem to be cast in steel; they have no flexibility at all. They insist that others must conform to them and, unless they work alone, they don‘t stay too long in a job even though they may have real ability. Their home life usually is less than ideal for the same reason You may say that humanity can be likened to a gigantic Jigsaw puzzle. Most of the pieces won‘t fit together, but each piece has a chance of fitting perfectly with one other piece, though this is a rare occurrence. Most often, unlike the jigsaw piece, people can change their shape to adapt to others, at least temporarily, while some are so flexible as to be able to get along with just about anyone; what they lack in individuality they make up for with amiability. But there is a catch here: while each subconsciously wishes to acquire the traits admired in the other, consciously they resist making a change, so that the very characteristics that attracted them to each other in the first place now are driving them apart â€" simply because the mutual exchange never took place. I‘m sure she didn‘t mean that this is a hard and fast rule for being attracted to the opposite sex. We know that some people marry a mother (or father) image and, again, others are attracted by their differences. Each sees in the other traits which they lack and the other has, and this can be the most constructive relationship. In a discussion the other night, a wise young woman made the comment, ‘We fall in love with the person who sees in us that which we like in ourselves.‘ When each mirrors back to the other a reflection that shows them in their best light, it is bound to result in mutual selfâ€"esteem. I suppose the ultimate test of human relations is to be found in the mating game, when people are searching for the one person with whom they can share their lives. The human Jigsaw puzzle 10 â€" WATERLOO CHRONICLE, WEDNESDAY, MAY 13, 1992 id House o Cedar 210 Regina St. N RickSlmonofSMdothProducfloncompmyflmtumm hhndngm&dngwowmflnummwn«bo. Deborah Crandall Chronicle Staff .. Waterloo i + uin gho u+ aeg wepeper nemncuicngas creation of a parade, and spéak out for the protection of the Grand River at the same time. Shadowland Production Comâ€" pany, a group of "carnivalâ€"style" artists based on Toronto Island. Deborah Crandall photo 39,000 S$q. Ft. Allâ€"Indoor Warehouse & SuperStore 6 Grades, Everything in Cedar! Clear, Nearâ€"clear, Knotty Cedar Sikkens Cetol Woodfinishes Whiripools & Spas from $599 out of Uniroyal, it started to make some serious effects on myself and our community," Engâ€" lar says. "So we raised some money, and we approached these communities, and here we are at the University of Waterloo." Englar says "A Grand Celebraâ€" tion of Water" is derived from a project that Shadowland has been working on for three years called the Lysistrata Project, inspired by the classic theatrical work by Aristophanes. The play‘s theme has been altered, though, to reâ€" flect the protest against the deâ€" "My sister was born here, I lived here for 16 years, my paâ€" rents were involved a lot in the culture of Kitchenerâ€"Waterloo. And when I started to hear news about the pollution of the Grand three years ago, a lot of it coming Leida Englar, the group‘s coâ€"arâ€" tistic director, says because of its dedication to matters concerning the protection of the environâ€" ment, Shadowland was drawn to the communities of the Grand Group (WPIRG), Shadowland has been holding parade workshops at the University of Waterloo‘s Campus Centre since Monday. A parade involving the workshop‘s participants, and utilizing the made by the partipants, will be held tomorrow. Duanvilie), Shadowland will host three days of workshops for all ages, which give instruction in such things as costume making, mask and parade decoration, stilt walking, and drums and street music performance. And in each community, an actual parade will follow the workshops. has come to Waterloo this week during a tour that will take the group to five communities along In coâ€"operation with the Waterâ€" In each community (Waterloo,