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or iemaie or homosexual or native or physically challenged And while they are willing to experience the suffering of these various groups. they support change but not out of some universal guilt for crimes they didnt commit. Men and women both deserve to discover their inner strengths, to ap. proach each other as honest equate The impact of weak or absent fathers on sons is the subtect of two other books. Sam Osherson. a Boston psychiatrist. has written Finding Our Fathers: How a Man's Lite IS Shaped by his Retahonship with his Father. And Guy Comeau, a WELCOME BACK STUDENTS QUINN’S CLASS SPECIALS 101 “THE PLACE Y00ft PARENTS W0 Y0il Mum." in fact I've tanked to men reoentty who feel left out because they lack mmonty status. They're not Neck n. 5...-.- -- c--, _ noun“ mom FOOTBALL wee HOT Does WATCH THE GAME ON oufl GM,“ SCREEN mm CONTESTS 99.225 TI IE6 In fact, as many women as men appear to be ptcking ltupelthertorthernselvesortorthemen in then Irves Some feminists have reacted enemy to Bly, offended try tus mythological roots and the tnbel gathenngs at men he has organized, I feel they've mlssed the Pont, taking one or two threads out of context. On one at Bly's tapes (called The Story at Iron John) he describes meeting a leader at men‘s workshoos In Cahtorma. This man is of. !1.md.edtyttsroutmtadintttestotyrtavirmtthGy the key from under his mother‘s piles. He insists that the son and mother cooperate rather than break away, Bly asks thus man about his work. He’s told that every male that enters the workshop must agree that all men, by virtue ot bong male, are responsible for all vlolence ever done to women. And It turns out that ttus leader 15 "living all" the woman m hrs lite and still carries a load ot anger towards hrs father, PAGE w . WATERLOO CHROME. WV. made: fa. What follows Iron John? Back m May I talked about Iron John: I Book About Men by Robert Bly. as one of the seminal books of the Sos, The book expands on a Grimm's tarry tale to explore male initiation in pre-industrial Cultures Its purpose ttt to help men get in touch mth ther masculine power. by which he means not hoshle aggressnn but an Inner resolve to know and defend what one loves, The book has been on the bestseller lists smce February (whlch means that the paperback editlon IS delayed till earty '92). So, who‘s buylng t and what's next after you've read tt9 as we ST. ik" - - Ott "e2Sle VALBEEENTRE) )TBALL FRIDAys DANCE 4 Sim, on OUR my On Q?” N132?“ FR’ENDs ARE WITH You ,szes KING VALUE PM” a TUESDAYS & SUNDAYS ER $0.15 WINGS ALL DAY AND NIGHT HAPPY HOUR FREE BUFFET WEDNESDAY _ FRIDAY 5:00 PM, - 6:30 PM. SH 490% -- rrv o' “Want & Vs" Chuck Erica is a Waterloo bookseller and free- lance miter. Finding Our iitiGysam Osherson, Fawcett, 812.50 Absent Fathers, Loot Sons, Guy Comeau, Shamb. hale. $15.00 The Flying Boy, John Lee, Health Communications, $10.95 Fire in the Belly, Sam Keen, Bantam, $24.95 lddt?ontesery, sisjk Story-telling us a strong component in many of these books and in Bty's gatherings. Michael 1!r1teys.rtcrrdet1twdAeiuntaidiionaui, called on with the Rat's Head. As well. Bly was 1tttrviedpyBuutryertoraPtssspeciigtieG GatheringotMen. This is availablein both audio and video formats. So, what's after Bly? More of him in other formats or in his poetry, and a couple of shelves of titles listed under men's issues. And as you mad, talk about the feelings that are stirred up, something that men rarely do with each other; in The Flying Boy, John Lee, who has worked with Robert Bly, examines why men run from relationships. having failed to connect to the psychological wounds itttrtctttd by both parents. And Sam Kaen, who's been around since he wrote To It Dancing God in 1970 (which is still in print). has added his voice to the men's movement with Fire in the Belly. -- _."'"" .V._..,..-. ... "man-wan, lo “I: auuluv UI Mum Fathers, Lost Sons: the Search for Mascu- line Identity. In The Flying Boy, John Lee. who has worked with Robert Bly, examines why men run from @0983th in Montreal, is the author of tto King St. South Opposite Waterloo Square (letrt9,tosqen. 4n: I Mill! 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