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If we hate Well directed hate ‘can be beneficial le hated‘ more â€" such things as intolerance, injustice, ry, greed and so on; for to do so is to love their opposites. somewhere that there are many people Whirlpools; Saunas Spas, Hot Tubs and whose lives are so and Anna Beth Stewart have made i triendships mummmm" Teborth Cvinge provides women with an ‘the effects of midâ€"ife change, â€" _ Beta Sigma Phi members (from left) Ann Wilcox, Madetyn Smith midâ€"life"; "women and the law", "getting away from illness â€" moving toward wellness", "can I &amw& s.«-ny"b in Kitchenerâ€"Waterloo have been providing each other with friendâ€" often involving themselves in community service projects. And though the sorority is not a service organization per se, for the past three years its members have coâ€"ordinated and hosted an in the hotel‘s ballrcoom, and comâ€" "The speakers are upbeat, even * THE AREA‘S LARGEST SHOWROOM * 41 Models on Display * From $659 NOW ON SALE! . House «: Cedar 210 Regina St. N., Waterioo 885â€"1711 chapters have been founded in 32 countries. In Kitchenerâ€"Waterloo, there are 12 Beta Sigma Phi chapters and 250 members. in the U.S. during the depression. It was intended to be a social and cultural outlet for women who could not afford to continue with formal education. ship, or developing and uplifting your own cultural ideals," says member Madelyn Smith. "Life, in the U "I think the basic theme that runs through all of this is friendâ€" learning and friendship â€" that‘s ~(registration is $45) and some ‘donations h,hhud-' fees, have been to the Waterioo YWCA ($50 in 1988 and misig! ($7,700 in tal Foundation in the Alzheimer ($400 in 1990), and St. ‘s General Hospital ($5,700 in 1990). This year, proceeds from the seminar (held Feb. 10 from 8:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m.) will be donated to the Freeport Health Care Vilâ€" lage, Kitchenerâ€"Waterioo Hospiâ€" tal and St. Mary‘s Hospital. Throughout the year, Beta Sigâ€" ma Phi members meet twice monthly, each meeting offering a cultural program. Speakers are often invited to discuss topics including health, the arts, motherhood, and the environ: ment. Members range in age and lifestyle, but all receive one main reward with Beta Sigma Phi involvement â€" friendship. about the day. That‘s why we decided to do it as a classy day â€" have a nice lunch that may cost a Mmhifi’.m bag. It‘s almost a way of pamperâ€" ing yourself. It‘s very uplifting." Speakers this year include lawâ€" yer Margaret Ann Voll; Marcia Redmond of the Waterioo Regionâ€" al Health Unit; Interhospital Family Violence Education coâ€"orâ€" dinator Disnne Fal; Dr. Helen e ces sex e Heather Lee Kilty, of Kilty Reâ€" r‘-fl-h&“ h“â€"hflwfiz tional support for women :â€" life change, the seminar provides their topics may be about wwm:}nm.. care," Wilcox says. "If the discusâ€" sions are done well, you feel good Beh?-flnmmbluhd : the U.S. during the depression. omen are Special seminar to various comâ€"