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It is failing to understand this great truth EJ% y had the rare ability to see through the obvious surface of things, to the great hidden truths below. _ â€"â€" xproget tats fadllity nhare bosige gare facility where Beatsic now lives at age 91, that affection is coupled with an equal amount of admiâ€" Never cast the easy lot in life, Beatsie lived as a widow for many years in East Montreal, in a modest, thirdâ€"floor walkâ€" character, ‘she would serve up equal Such a man was Ralph Waldo Emerâ€" son, who died in 1882 at the age of 79. Known as the Sage of Concord, in his time he was highly controversial, as are all great leaders and thinkers who are born ahead of their times; but time has vindicated the clear, shining truth of what he had to say. Take this for example: "But the one fact that shines through all this pleniâ€" tude of powers is, that as is the receiver, so is the gift; that all these acquisitions are victories of the good brain and brave Hlvmg' watched my own grandmother live out m,zmm.umy, I have always had an appreciation for run fl people who inhabit them. lyAmg:lLB:;?iehlhmmthhu category. ‘s not really Te m en hiam s wip L But about three years ago, the double It‘s not luck â€" you get what you deserve lesson learned from a courageous woman Two weeks ago, while visiting Beth‘s mmwmhadugfl'z opportunity to go share some i Bottio.lv.nq:m,nothvingmv the facility, what to expect. "Be prepared," Iâ€"said to Malcolm, M"it,m beth,:t%i.m o not pretty a si Mviflm-lutow.nht'o go for it." $ And so we did, cautiously entering the side door, shuffling down the corridor, until several friendly and helpful staff were able to determine we were looking dilemma of her leg problems and failing eyesight made it i for Beatsie d e nreiep in the realization that a m:liu home facility was the only practical alternaâ€" ndly;:ntdol\t’noflifel.muthmim. so is imply means it‘s what we are th:ltn?etamnu what we have matched by becoming. Some weeks ago we discussed this truth, in regard to the mating game. Too often we will settle for second best, not knowing that we must become the kind of person who would attract the mate of means everything we receive from life, our dreams. But of course the same applies to all that we want from life. A person does not receive happiness or E:ad'mhdungiï¬bydnm.One to become the sort of person to whom these great gifts will just naturally "Actually, I don‘t like it. Maybe half as much would not be too Georgina Wegener Waterloo ‘That‘s Life‘ Geoffrey Fellows Perspective What is your opinion of the proposed Hydro increase? rewards in life must be in exact proporâ€" tion to our effort to achieve our full potential as human beings. Nature has provided many species with the ability to change their protecâ€" tive colouring, to match their environâ€" ments. We humans have no such ability; instead we have a far greater one, to be able to change our environments to match ourselves. How many times have you heard some entertainer or celebrity brag about the slum or ghetto he broke away from? If some can do it, why not all? Everyone wants the good things of life â€" friendâ€" ship, recognition, greatness in one‘s own sphere, but how many will spend the time or make the effort necessary to qualify for them? Perhaps it is not surprising that so many still believe in luck. These unforâ€" tunates believe that, somehow, it is possible to find the world of their dreams through some lucky break. And so they largely waste their lives waiting vainly for something that could have been theirs, if only they‘d had the knowledge that" ... as 1s the receiver, so is the gift." d?Nomfwnotcomingwmu mMeh?Dolntchthehodpy? Yll.buttheywltnhto,l'mun.l}y in bed by 8:30 so I don‘t get to see too much of it, usually they have to come to my room to turn it off. You want to see What an amazing woman. All sorts of h-lthproblemu.-nmnylgulym for Beatrice Kelly, not Gertrude, and that we‘d find her, Beatrice, likely on n Fams car e wasn in auditorium listenihg to a St. Patrick‘s day concert. Getting off on the third floor, we went down a hall to a TV room, and who should be sitting in her wheelchair, sipping tea, eating a cookie. "Auntie Beatsie, how are you!" we shouted in unison. Not expecting us, she was naturally taken a bit aback, but i taxes to pay for right now." _ (a Mrs. G. Craig "I don‘t want it. I have enough WATERLOO CHRONICLE, WEDNESDAY, MARCH 28, 1990 â€" PAGE 7 specialist in your chosen vocation. Next then, is how do you become the sort of person who would have what you want to have? The answer is, by thinkâ€" ing about it most of the time. But this is far different from wishful thinking, it can be nothing less than seeing yourself, in your mind, as already the person you wish to become. You cannot become anything without first forming the mental matrix of what you want to be; just as you cannot create anything without first having a mental picture of what you want to create. (Geoff Fellows operates the Human Resource Development Institute, P.O. Box 642, Cambridge, NLR 5W1, provid and industry.) fine, thank you very much. We should all do so fine. sure do. And, on a day when I I was doing someone else a favor, I walked away, my spirits lifted, with the following lesson safely tucked away, "You know," she always says, "life‘s what you make of it." So it‘s quite clear, isn‘t it? To obtain what you want you need to become the sort of person to whom it would naturalâ€" ly belong. To receive friendship, you thought. Old habits die hard. Knows nurses, fellow residents and even some visitors by the shuffle of their feet. Proudly shows us her room and her "magnificent view" up St. Catharine St. Then it‘s off for a tour of her dining room, and then up the hall to pop in to -md’hn?flnnhfln, b-n?ï¬toï¬aw "my visitors who came all the way from Toronto." "‘Maicolm, this is for you." "Ionie‘ tuto his hand. And then, as we spent our final few "I‘m paying a quarter of all the utilities right now in my place; think it‘s too high right now." 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