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Childreis questions re- garding sex should be dealt with when asked, said Mr. Guldner. Mum shouldn't tell the boy to wait until daddy comes home and the same holds true for the daughter. Parents establish a vo- cabulary for different body parts, particularly the re- productive organs and this is passed on to the children. it becomes whatever is right for that particular family. However, he point- ed out the rules need to be updated as the child grows older. Whether the tiarent rea- lizes it or not, he begins to teach his child about sex from the day he is born, said Mr. Guldner. there are no right and wrong rules for family nudity, he said, but rather “If you decide to marry someone, it should be be- cause you love them, not because you need to lean against them." said Mr. Guldner. Adults should feel “es- sentially whole" within themselves and not require someone to lean against in order to feel complete, say Kitchener's human sexual- ity therapists and marriage counsellors Speaking to the 200 pew ple attending the Parents Without Partners conven- tion at the Valhalla Inn last week-end, Claude and Dixie Guldner discussed the "completion theory" where parents without part- ners often feel incomplete when alone because society is based on couples. He described sexuality as the "awareness that you are a sexual being, including the way you think, feel and behave," while sex involves the actions through which we express the dimensions of our sexu- ality." These "dimensions" in- clude otte's attitudes, be- havior and communica- tion with a partner. An adult's attitude to- wards sex comes from the information he or she re- ceived from models while growing up and also from his or her own experiences. the daughter. The conference began "A child usually goes to with a welcome dance Fri- whichever parent he feels day evening. Members most comfortable with." visited the Kitchener VOLVO - B3IN1 - TOlA 0 I}? ' "cci'ii4Si' DH 'ir: By Marg Russell BM ll BMW and Single pa rents get advice at -dlJr"iii'lrr'ci""i'r'iGG- Kitchener-Waterloo's Authorized (Waterloo) Ltd. " University Ave., E. . Sales 0 Service . Parts HDI.\U and tl Dealer When indulging in sex, a couple should be “curi- ous, playful and adventur- ous or it will become bor- ing and monotonous," they said. "People think the most important thing in life is work and that play- ing is a waste of time." They mentioned the four basics of sexual communi- cation: to negotiate suc- cessfully each individual act of intercourse so that it's satisfying for the Cou- ple: when, where and how frequently does the couple have sex; balancing sexual desires with their personal relationship and controlling procreation by a method of contraception acceptable to both. No steadfast rules exist for sexual behavior and a single parent can range from having no sex to be- ing promiscuous, he said. Communication also plays an Important role in a sex- ual relationship. A partner may say one message but imply another, leading to confusion. Verbal and non- verbal conversation during the sex act is important. and a couple should talk about sex and how they feel following intercourse. they said. To possess a sense of sexual well-being, a part- ner should be able to sur- vive without constant at- tention from the other part- ner, he should believe in his own self-worth and he should be able to relate to his partner what he or she prefers. he said. "Re- member", what's good for the gander is not neces- sarily good for the goose." he said. "But just answer the child's specific ques- tion - don't go into masses oldetail." Parents Without Partners is an international non-pro- fit, non-sectarian, educa- tional organization devoted to the welfare and interests of single parents and their children. It was incorpora- ted in New York City in March, 1958 and now has chapters in every state of the Union, Canada and Australia with a member- ship of 150,000. Canada alone has 4,450 members [HIV Farmer's Market at 6:30 Sammy evening. 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