when 1 was practising social work in a psychiatric hospital I had a patient, a woman 65, who DEAR ASHAMED : aâ€"halfâ€"yearâ€"old daughter. It made me wonder whether that might be me in the future. On several occasions I‘ve had to trvy very I love my baby and my husâ€" band more than anything in this world. But sometimes I nearly lose control of myself. I can‘t afford a psychiatrist, but I need counsellins from hard to keep myself from -hurtin‘g my little threeâ€"monthâ€"old boy. I saw a television picture about a girl who had beaten her oneâ€"andâ€" ME EMBTDEIUAEMUTRNeg UReCEAIREEYCN ABSEMWE | Cns to give off some semblance of a feeling of wellâ€"being, a youngster can get along without a lot of House of Furniture 46 King North _ Waterloo Telephone 576â€"5440 mother has enough energy to be Every mother owes it to her children, as well as to herself, to get out of the house once or twice a week to take part in some community activity, or indulge in a hobby or sport which she enjoys. 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Two pairs of flat heels; black patent slippers. DEAR TRYING : A minimum would be three school outfits: a school dress, a jumper suit with some exchange, and a twoâ€"piece suit with blouse and sweater. Make the exchanges in colors to tie in. A brown skirt might have a brown top, a yellow blouse, a green or gold sweater. DEAR DORIS: Would you be kind enough to send me a list of what a 16â€"yearâ€" old‘s wardrobe shoud be for school for next fall? Hope your special Albert comes back from his particular trip to the lions without being gobbled up! Tell him Many Happy Returns from me. DEAR BEST : I lived near the Regent‘s Park Zoo (Toronto) a number of years. My husband has been in hospital with a broken hipbone nine months, but is expected home any day now. ~ My husband‘s name is Albert and when I was really annoyed I would often say, "I wish they had left our Albert in the Zoo." I am enclosing 10 cents and stamped envelope for the humorâ€" ous English poem, "Albert and the Lion.‘"., We always enjoyed hearing this over radio and you mentioned having it. when children came they repreâ€" sented to her, unconsciously and unreasonably, the barrier to her uniting with her own true love. A psychiatrist could help you, too. You would find out what suppressed anxiety or resentment is pushing you to take it out on your own baby. Please afford this help, and write me again to report progress. DEAR DORIS : 5 man she loved because of his religion. She later married, but Psychiatric counselling brought out the fact that she had been married life, but as a younger, stronger woman she had succeedâ€" ed in submerging it. s desire to kill her children. â€" She had had this urge all her To the first 65 Ladies A month on a 6â€"month program ioning equipment Trying To Get With It Doris Clark Best Wishes * Nas I am sending you my leaflet ‘Removing Unwanted Hair‘", which goes into all this. (Availâ€" able to other readers by writing to me for it, in care of this newsâ€" paper, and enclosing 10 cents and a stamped, â€" selfâ€"addressed enveâ€" lope.) DEAR FACIAL â€" The Pill is well recommended, even though there are some unimportant sideâ€" effects. Whether extra hair growâ€" th is one of them, in your case, is hard to say. Menopausal changes do someâ€" times cause hairs to sprout where they are not wanted. It might surâ€" prise you how many thousands of women remove them as they come. Just as you might file your nails or put on hand cream. Would this perhaps be because of getting older? I would also like any literature on menopause. My problem is that I have noticâ€" ed an increase of hair on my face. I am now concerned, and wonderâ€" ing if it is the pills that cause this; and if I should quit using them. > DEAR DORIS â€" I am 37 and usâ€" ing birthâ€"control pills These were prescribed by my doctor, but when I need an answer to some question he simply says he doesn‘t really know. DEAR SECOND â€" Childhood fab les make the worst of the "wickâ€" ed‘‘ stepmother. The term matters not nearly as much as the reality. Halfâ€"orphans have been taken on with great sucâ€" cess by this muchâ€"maligned brood. It goes hard with some boys and girls to attach the name of "Mothâ€" er‘‘ to a successor. I like the Chrisâ€" tian name, as long as the lady is happy with this. But for formal in troductions, the alternatives are: ‘"I‘d like to introduce my new mother,‘‘ or ‘‘my stepmother, who is a grand person‘", or "my faâ€" ther‘s new wife." dressâ€"up party gown. A fall coat; a winter coat; suitable footwear for snow. Three changes of lin gerie. All these are minimums. A lot depends on how tight the budget ters call me by my first name. O.K., but when they introduce me what do they say? DEAR DORIS â€" Although I am a stepmother, I don‘t.like the term. pdy husband‘s two married daughâ€" Jees Personally, I prefer the first or At oo O Â¥ @4 16 UNION STREET EAST, WATERLOO. ONTARIO Telephone 746â€"6773 _ Open Tues. â€" Sat. 10 a.m. â€" 5:30 p.m. TLE & CARPET S SHAG CARPET TILE 2392 King St. East, Kitchener â€" Phone 578â€"7650 Next to A & P Store at Franidin St. â€" 2 Biocks West of HiWay Market Open Monday, 1 p.m. to 6 p.m. Tuesday, Wed.. Thurs., 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. Firday 10 to 9 p.m. â€" Sat. 9 to 6 p.m. TILE & CARPET DISCOUNTERS LTD. 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