DEAR DAD-Sounds unfair, especially that second one. But there are times when physical punishment is better than ‘no con- trol at all. She reads your column and she may wake up before it is too late. I'm afraid she will accept a ring from anyone - just to say she is engaged, too. Physical punishment is usually the last resort of a parent who has not been able to get across any loving control, or to make a son or daughter feel that he or she has a friend in that same dad. In other words, do you and your daughter ever talk about any- thing that matters to her? Does she ever come to you with her questions or puzzlements? DEAR DORIS-what would you say to a girl, 19, who is very mis- erable because all her friends are going steady or engaged? She feels that she is on a shelf at 19. She gets plenty of dates, but she drives them away because of her one-track mind. She is bored with her job, because the ones at work go steady, too. DEAR Doeus--My 13-year-oid daughter has been getting out of hand for the last month. Last week was the last straw. l marched her into the den, turned her across my knee and gave her the spanking of her life. A few days later I spanked her again so she wouldn't forget. My wife said I was too severe with her. Please give me your opinion. Strict Dad She'll date anyone whether she likes him or not, just to feel pop- ular. What would you advise for this girl? A change of job or friends? A Friend In Need DEAR FRIEND-A complete new set of friends or occupation would only provide her with new people to drive away from her. As in the play Dear Brutus, the fault lies "not in her stars, but in herself." More than one girl has made the card) CO-ORDINATES SWEATER SHOP Open Mon -Sat‘ 10 . s Pants, reg. 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Children are sometimes senselessly loyal to a dead parent to the exclusion of a very nice new living one. To Christmas Party: Don't just count on food and conversation to make an office party go. The crowd is too heterogeneous for you to be sure they'll hit it off. You have very young and quite old, married and unmarried (without partners present), male and female. We have been very close, and I learned quite by accident that Mom has more money than Dad. Dad is all for disinheriting my brothers and leaving every- thing to me. Mom wants them all to share. All I want is for Dad and Mom to be happy and enjoy their lives together. My brothers are missing so much because Mom and Dad are such a happy couple. But games and skits can unite them all in a fun-time. The pan- tomimes "Pokey Huntus" and "A Day On The Farm" are hil- arious. Need a few props, about five actors and a little preparation. I am sending them to you in your stamped envelope. All thtt most wanted colors and sizes. Come and See! Assorted Colors and Sizes 272 King North. Waterloo 744-4281 (next to Trofloy t oop) Doris Clark TAMS All-Wool I Lobe Them Both Fri ti" s 75 You see, we change. Do you want the same storybooks that antranced you in Grade I? If our ideas stayed the_same, there'dl really be cause for alarm. Same with our friends. DEAR DORIS - (I) Are blue or different colors of stationery wrong to use when you’re writing business letters? t3) Is stationery with cute little verses wrong to use? Unsure DEAR UNSURE -- (I) Yes. (2) No. (3) No. Confiendtial to Needing Him- Sorry, Sweetie, but it isn't always possible to get that wandering boy back. Funny thing is, often when a girl like you does find him back on the doorstep, as often as not she wishes he wasn't! (2) Is colored paper wrong for friendly letters? Next month this time, or may- be next week, you’ll be laughing at today's desperation. Look a- round for new worlds to conquer. . . 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