DEAR DORIS â€" A chance acâ€" quaintance whom I met several years ago has become a ball and chain around my neck. I felt sorry for her at the time because she seemed almost mentally ill. She keeps me on the telephone sometimes for hours. Once I told her not to bother me any more beâ€" cause my nerves were getting frayed just listening to her trouâ€" bles. I got rid of her for about a year. Then she started it again. I am happy with my husband and childâ€" ren, but she doesn‘t want to beâ€" lieve that. How in heaven‘s name do I get rid of her? DEAR TALE OF WOE â€" I‘d hate to guess how many kind souls like you find their home routines disrupted by such calls. Why couldn‘t a housewife say, "I just cannot talk on the teleâ€" phone. Right now I have lunch to get ready and baking to do for Satâ€" urday."" Or, "I must go. There is something on the stove."‘ (One woâ€" man keeps a kettle of water on the stove just so she can say this, but I‘m afraid I don‘t go for an unâ€" necessary bit of deception.) Where the longâ€"winded comâ€" plaint concerns family wrangâ€" ling, one could do worse than sugâ€" gest a talk with a qualified counâ€" selor in a social agency. DEAR DORIS â€" Our niece, whom we have raised from a baby, is being married. She has two aunts on her mother‘s side who are known to her. There are three unâ€" cles whom she has never seen. DEAR AUNT â€" Any of the uncles who happen to be married to the aunts ought to be inyited. â€"Is it necessary to ask these uncles if she asks the aunts? She wants to keep it small. A bride may invite or leave out whomever she wishes, but it might be worth considering that here is a chance to reâ€"establish some conâ€" tacts with her own flesh and blood. She is entering a new life, beâ€" coming an adult and a homemaker in her own right. The time may come when she will prize family relationships more than she does now. DEAR DORIS â€" I would like inâ€" formation about mild brain damâ€" age in children. Can you tell me if there is a cure for this type of child? DEAR CONCERNED â€" There are so many variations of brain damâ€" age, and the term covers such a wide range of difficulties that there is no one diagnosis of treatâ€" ment. In most cases, it can be overcome. Your source of information is Plus in Motorcycles in 1971 {lichty let whats happening happen to You... S( SUZUKI â€" MONTESA scorpion‘s TRUCK Tale Of Woe Aunt Ellie Concerned ~scorpion‘s your own family doctor. Confidential to Lynda â€" Everyâ€" thing gets you down. To me that spells ill health or fatigue. You worry about the typing, but here‘s a thought : In just about any course, a student is apt to reach a sort of plateau and stand still for a short time before spurting ahead. Ask your teacher what she thinks about your aptitude as a typist. Moving out won‘t cure what is wrong with you. Get a medical checkâ€"up, some extra rest and some new things to think about. My private letter goes into deâ€" tails. Confidential to Christmas 1970 â€" Just name it. I can supply leafâ€" lets on Christmas games, on sugâ€" gestions for Santa (age nine and up), three christmas candles you can make, and on knowing how to give (for guidance with charities). Available to any reader who writes to this paper, enclosing a sixâ€"cent stamped and selfâ€"addresâ€" sed envelope and 10 cents for each leaflet requested. DEAR DORIS â€" This is a mesâ€" sage for all those mothersâ€"toâ€"be who fear childbirth. Before my first girl was born I read many books on Natural Childâ€" birth and as a result, I took the classes at our local Victorian Ordâ€" er of Nurses clinic. From the beâ€" ginning of labor until the birth of my child. I was given only a thrill that no one can graphically exâ€" press when I saw my baby born and heard her first lusty cries. When my second gir} was born I was given the usual sedation and I still feel cheated because I was not able to see her birth due to a brokâ€" en knee. WATERLOO COâ€"OP PREâ€"SCHOOL 578â€"4314 or 576â€"0563 9 Avondale South Kitchener Waterloo Kitchener Doris Clark JESSOPS " December 1, 1970 or January 1, 1971 haifâ€"days â€" Tues., Wed., Thurs. EQUIPMENT & REPAIR Call 4 Bridge St. E. Bridgeport HAS OPENINGS FOR for three and four year olds As for fear of pain, in neither birth did I experience real pain. My only sensation was that which anyone feels when going down in an elevator. All for Natural Childbirth DEAR NATURAL â€" Glad to hear it. The prenatal classes and exâ€" ercises are wonderful and are givâ€" en by various health agencies. Aboutâ€"toâ€"be mothers can find these resources by making inquirâ€" ies of health departments in their own localities. DEAR DORIS â€" I am nearly 16. My parents think I am too young for dates and when my boyfriend phones me they even said I was not to answer the phone. They let me talk to him twice, only for five minutes and I had to have all the doors opened so they could hear what we were saying. They won‘t let me join the comâ€" munity social club because they know he will be there. Ontario & Duke Sts. I even stay home and do the chores for them thinking they might give me a turn at going out, but it is always the same ‘"No." Held Down DEAR HELD DOWN â€" Teenagers need encouragement and guidance more than they need spying on. Have you given mom and dad reasâ€" on to feel you can‘t be trusted? Here in Canada, youthâ€"workers believe that healthy â€" teenage friendships between the sexes and aboveâ€"board socializing, can bring about desirable relationships and, eventually, good marriages. Perhap's when you do turn 16 they will realize a milestone has been passed. Show them this colâ€" Waterloo Square Waterloo I have been breeding American Eskimos for just over 10 years. I picked this breed, because I liked its gorgeous coat and outstanding beauty and for its intelligence as well. The first feâ€" male I purchased was named Bettsie, and I taught this dog to climb a stepladder, turn around at the top and walk down again. She would stand on her hind legs and beg for food. I would back up, and she would walk on her hind legs after me or towards me. After walking across the room, I would give her the food. Betâ€" tsie could also walk about six feet on her front legs, just like I would walk on my hands. She could jump over a 30° high box that was 20" wide and clear it easily. When we were ready to eat a meal, she would stand on her hind legs and bow her head, putting her two front paws over the top of her nose when we said grace. She always begged to be let outside. If she wanted to go out during the night, she would come to the bedroom and nudge my arm to wake me up. 1E HLmLZ 3 e aeg e d HH n OLDER PUPPIES Am eeetiegne. o en Lc cce en s en e en o e When the children would play hockey on the rink and their puck go off the ice, she would retrieve it and drop it on the ice behind the goal at whatever end was closest to her. Bettsie would bring the daily paper to the back door, receiving a treat for this chore. She never left the yard except once that I know of. One morning, about 5 A.M., she awakened me and begged me to let her out. I opened the back door and she went like a shot after a deer that was grazing in our garden, chased it a mile into the bush. I could see her, as it was a clear, moonlight morning, and being pure white I could follow her easily with ® Mouaee s al o @1 on Sn ote MIm it Ch db eeoivon Lo eomemee ie on 0o 00 field glasses. Our American Eskimo would also keep the chickâ€" ens out of the garden when they flew over the fence, also helped catch them without hurting them. If the cat got up on the table. she would growl and bark at it, and the cat would get down again. She caught a coon in the garden one night in the corn patch. I had the coon skin made into a openâ€"mouth floor rug. The Taxidermist said it was the best fur he had ever seen. The guard hair are perfect. My wife wishes now she would have had a neck piece made from it. This dog was a very good watâ€" chdog. She had many other talents. She could say "yes"" by barking once and No‘ by barking twice. She could count to five by barking five times. Bettsie died in March 1960. I promised my daughter another dog. "PR" Lassie Snow White is also an intelligent dog and is everything that the first Bettsie was and more. When she is having a litter, I have to be there. She just won‘t rest until I stay there. I started breeding dogs, when Lasâ€" sie Snow White was in heat at 9 months. I now have 5 Dams and 2 Sires. ton, Ohio. His Sire is Wee Minuteman and is the Eskimo dog shown on the all breed pictorial chart. To sum it all up, I belâ€" ieve this breed can be trained to do almost anything and would make good working dogs or utility dogs as well as good companions and pets. White Eskimo Spitz Puppies * CC the 1 4 One ;)f the Sires is Yankie Doodle. Since I got into breeding, I haven‘t had too much time to spend with training the dogs. Yankie Doodle was purchased from Mrs. V.T. Stout of Alvordâ€" THE PERFORMING AMERICAN ESKIMO 3 â€" A â€" KENNELS Waterloo Chronicle, Thursday, November 19, 1970 15 ER PUPPIES‘Reduced to °OJ ~~ while they last Reserve now for Christmas â€"*10°° Deposit Registered Harold Strub Erb St. West, RR No. 3, Waterloo PHONE 745â€"5391 12 lbs. Full Grown $65°° 125