When this type of illness strikes, it is the family‘s obligaâ€" tion not to leave the choice of treatment to the patient. The wonder is that in this enlightened day and age mental illness can go untreated for so long. preciate it if you would send me something about. proper etâ€" iquette and anything else you have about getting along with people, grooming, etc. ® I have one person in mind who needs help, but wouldn‘t hurt her feelings by talking Anything in writing she up and read for herself by it. I can send a list of book: manners; an article for teen growing up; one for the halfâ€" tury on growing, Lovelier the Years. Better tell me n about your Problem Case. Better also be ready for ure. It takes more than an . book to make a person read gest and put into practice a ; DEAR MILLIO to throw the book useful old dodge things around for to trip over. idea. DEAR DORIS â€" My says it is not in good taste lady to have pierced ears. to pierce mine so I can those cute little earrings. I spoke to my doctor about her and he thinks she is schizoâ€" phrenic. The only thing he could suggest was that her husband get a psychiatrist to go to the house; but he admitted this would be rather expensive. DEAR WORRIED â€" My psyâ€" chiatric consultant thinks she may indeed be schizophrenic. And you don‘t let expense hold you back when a life is slowly being sealed off into a tomb. Treatment is urgent; hospital treatment, he says. She can be cured now;, later, it will be far more difficult. A psychiatrist, making a call at the house, could commit her to an institution. DEAR DORIS â€" My niece, who is 26, became so miserable and quiet that her husband was alarmed about her. She used to be the life of the party. She is getâ€" ting worse, staring into space most of the time. She refuses to see a doctor. 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If the piercing is done by a skilled professional, and the girl confines herself to the little, cute type of earring, it is O.K., both healthâ€"wise and fashionâ€" sponsibility is it to see that the news of a shower or wedding appears in the local paper? DEAR SIXTEEN â€" Nothing to do with taste. Many wellâ€"born women have had pierced ears. wise. DEAR INTERESTED â€" Bride Ontarians are the kind of people who wouldn‘t be _ we had a surplus to boot. Yet, neede here if there was any place better. We are people have not been neglected. The Ontar who came from a hundred lands and stayed to build. Corporation for example, has hous People with backbone and brawn and a hunger to people to date and currently has alme« succeed. Men and women who‘ve created a stanâ€" dollars worth of programs active in dard of living in decades that other lands worked Ontario Communities. We need centuries to build. If we have a flaw it‘s our chronic economy of course, to support these modesty. Ontarians may be proud to be Ontarians â€"programs. And, that‘s where you come and Canadians . . . they just seldom tell anyone. _ our productivity has doubled in ten y« From an economic point of view that‘s wrong. The incomes in twelve, Ontarians don‘t more people we have boosting Ontario and _ successes. There‘s a demanding decad Canada the better it is. And we‘ve got a lot to _ of challenges and opportunities to mak boost with. At a time when the dollar is having of our lives better yet. To meet thes many demands made on it, Ontarians can note that â€" we‘ve got to believe in ourselves. W provincial taxes have held the line in 1970. And _ you think about it, isn‘t such a bad id Everytime you boost Ontario . . . Ontario and Canada get a little stronger. Government of Ontario (<7) John Robarts, Prime Minister. Doris Clark Ontario. Is there any place you‘d rather be? If reporters are asking the groomâ€"toâ€"be for a premature anâ€" nouncement he may say, ‘"‘Yes, I do know Miss Pretty, but any plans which may develop will be announced by her family."‘ or bride‘s family. But it would have to be a prominent girl inâ€" deed to have a shower written up in the local news. Confidential to Flower Girl‘s Mother â€" Since your little girl considers the brideâ€"tobe as her very special friend, how about something quite personal, like a framed picture of herself, signâ€" ed and with a wedding date? , Or a memory book; a pretty leatherâ€"covered one, where mesâ€" sages and names associated with her wedding day would be jotted down. Or a colorful decorator cushion, or a little bedroom clock. we had a surplus to boot. Yet, needed programs have not been neglected. The Ontario Housing Corporation for example, has housed 120,000 people to date and currently has almost a billion dollars worth of programs active in nearly 200 Ontario Communities. We need a vigorous economy of course, to support these important programs. And, that‘s where you come in. Though our productivity has doubled in ten years and our incomes in twelve, Ontarians don‘t sit on their successes. There‘s a demanding decade ahead full of challenges and opportunities to make the quality of our lives better yet. To meet these challenges we‘ve got to believe in ourselves. Which, when you think about it, isn‘t such a bad idea. Sandwiches for swingers are fast and fun to make A hot subjectâ€"that‘s hot sandâ€" wiches. Here are some swinging suggestions which will appeal to rock fans and others. If they like hot tuna, its a good bet they‘ll dig these easily made tuna doggies. Make a filling for hot dog buns by combining equal parts of flaked tuna and grated cheese. For extra zip, add some preâ€" pared mustard, chopped onion, and chopped sweet pickle. For six doggies you will need Wrap each bun in aluminum foil, sealing the foil with double folds to make steamâ€"tight packâ€" ages. Heat in a moderate oven for about 20 minutes to melt the one can of flaked tuna, one cup of grated cheese, and two taâ€" blespoons each of prepared musâ€" ped sweet pickle. Mix well, then place the filling in the buns. fun is hot sardine triangles This â€" goodâ€"tasting _ sandwich Another snack that‘s fast and Waterloo Chronicle, Thursday, November 5, 1970 11 which serves three, Ccalls for one can of Canadian sardines, three slices of processed cheese, and six slices of white bread. A musical comabo commisting of piano, drum, guitar, and bass has been formed by immnates at the Federal Prison at Terre Haute, Indo. Name of the growp is The Fifth Amendments. Drain the oil from the sardines and cut each fish in half lengthâ€" wise. Portion the cut fish on three slices of bread. Complete each sandwich by covering the fish with a processâ€" ed cheese slice and a slice of bread. Spread the sandwiches on the outside, evenly amd generâ€" ously with soft butter or marâ€" garine. Cut diagonally in Ralf. Shortly before servimg time, place the sardime triamgles in a large, beated frying pan, taking care not to crowd them. Fry on both sides until goiden brown. Prison combe for