DEAR FOOT â€" Not according to me. A mother who has provided a reception, taken care of guests, worked with a daughter over the months so that everything will be perfect, surely she has a right to ask! For curiosity‘s sake, was I entirely in the wrong? Is it in bad taste to ask? e e Couples often do want to keep it a secret, but I have yet to disâ€" cover a motherâ€"ofâ€"theâ€"bride who did not privately know just where her precious treasure was going to be on that wedding night. DEAR DORIS â€" I am criticized for the way I walk, talk, eat, dress and wear my hair. But the hardest blow of all is being looked up and down, and then asked: ‘"Are you a boy or a girl?" Sure I wear my hair short and I was obliged to wear out my brother‘s duds and I know I‘m not the most femâ€" inine creature il‘ town, but for all these faults that friends and family point out, what am I supâ€" posed to do about them? The hardest part to take was that later she had told some others where they planned on going. I have not mentioned this to my husband as I would only get anâ€" other talk on how to mind my business. For one thing, my mother won‘t let me wear long hair teven if I wanted it) and how can I help She tilted her head and said: *‘We are not telling anyone where we are going." So I said: "All right.‘"" I was hurt, but determined not to let it show and spoil the day. DEAR DORIS â€" I am wonderâ€" ing if I goofed on my daughter‘s wedding day. Many people at the reception asked me where they were going on their honeymoon. I mentioned this to my daughter. COMPLETE Decorating and Color Consultation Service ®© Vinyl Wall Coverings © Harding Carpets © Armstrong Flooring © Custom Made Draperies e Flo Glaze Paints © Kem Finishes e Hees Pull Shades Nearing Completion _ 743â€"5283 110 King S. Waterloo Also an eightplex apartment unit nearing completion, in Lakeshore Village. For more information call New Bungalows PARKWAY HEIGHTS AREA General Contractors Limited Days 745â€"1 108 Evenings 743â€"0603 MARTIN MAY in Kitchener‘s Waterioo Chronicle, Thursday, July 9, 1970 Foot In mouth Doris Clark Could be he was embarrassed about being with another girl, and that‘s why he didn‘t say "hi." To Terribly In Love â€" At least let him know you don‘t bear a grudge. Next time you see him, smile and speak to him. « With your brother‘s pants, wear a feminineâ€"looking top. As your education progresses, pay attenâ€" tion to good English and forget slang. Then when you round out a little there‘ll be no mistaking your sex. DEAR TOMBOY â€" And I supâ€" pose you play ball, chew gum, use slang; used to climb trees? So did I. And many other feminine teens did, too. Add some pretty curls to your hairdo. Spit out the gum â€" for keeps. Learn a graceful carriage. Use a little makeâ€"up. the way I was born? To get down to brass tacks, should I try to change myself, or should I just be myself, and not try to please everybody? + I Elmer‘s * _ Tomboy Conestoga College is the only place in Ontario which teaches this program. It attracts students from many parts of the province and from the United States. Arthur Hamilton, the first overâ€" seas student to graduate from Conestoga College, has returned to his home country to teach in Georgetown, Guyana. He was a graduate of the wood products technician course. First overseas graduate Ah those lovely fresh vegeâ€" tables! But to remove those tiny insects that love them tooâ€"soak the vegetables in cold salty water for a while. â€" Soak them in salt The Guyanan graduate attended next To Canadian Legion 27 REGINA NORTH Barber Shop Have moved to 745â€"2687 KEN‘S ONTARIO SAFETY LEAGUE/ _ wateRLOO CHRONICLE Any Canadian child between 6 and 14 may enter. All entries become property of Elmer the Safety Elephant. Judges deciâ€" sion final. Fill out entry form. Print clearly. Show which EImer rule is being broken above and colour the picture. Cut out along dotted lines and mail to address shown. on the Colombo Plan. While at the college, he lived at the Red Lion Inn in Doon with othâ€" er students and was active on the school‘s soccer team. We Rent Most Everything FOR FURTHER C INFORMATION & RATES 125 UnionSt. E. Waterloo 7 Complete Rent â€" Alls "MAIL BEFORE JULY 14 to: ELMER CONTEST no.] STREET ADDRESS NAME AGE City or town BOX 4072, STATION A, TORONTO 1, ONT. 7A44â€"2741 CALL US AT Girl province