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Page 2 'i. ERRACE BAY/SCHREIBER NEWS Wednesday, January 10, 1990 Terrace Bay musician named member of respected U.S. band Anthony Friedrich who resides in Terrace Bay has been accepted for membership in the United States Collegiate Wind Band, a highly selective musical organi- zation which will make a three week concert tour of Europe and England next July. His parents are Mr. and Mrs. Heirbert Friedrich. He plays clarinet in the local - Lake Superior High School Band (Orchestra) directed by Howard Alexander. ~ The invitation to tour with the Collegiate Wind Band came from Dr. Al G. Wright, Director of Bands Em. at Purdue University, Lafayette, Indiana because of his recent selection for the "All- American" Hall of Fame of Distinguished High School Musicians. The United States Collegiate Wind Band will perform a series of concerts in some of Europe's most important musical centers including London, Paris, Lugano, Salzburg and Lucern. The wind Band will assemble in New York City for four-days of intensive rehearsal prior to flying to Brussels for the start of the tour. Distinguished American, Canadian, and European conduc- tors will direct the group at the concerts. The Wind Band will be of full symphonic proportions numbering 92 musicians. Accepiance for membership in this highly talented group of young musicians is considered an important musical honor of national significance. Previous concerts played by the group on tour have becn received with critical acclaim by knowledgable European audi- ences. Standing ovations have been the rule rather than the exception. In addition to their concert performances, members of the group will visit a number of important musical shrines. These will include Mozart's birth place in Salzburg, Wagner's home and studio in Lucern, Beethoven's house in Bonn, and Chopin's London residence. The students will also attend selected performances by world famous professional orchestras and concert bands. Following is a list of common characteristics of men who batter their partners. 1. 80 per cent have been abused or seen abusc as children. 2. They tend to minimize or deny the frequency and severity of their violence. 3. They see their lives as being extemally directed - both positive and negative aspects. (i.e. Causes Thank you The Schreiber NB.C. Hockey League would like to thank the following for helping sell our raffle tickets for the 300 Ib. Glass Turkey. Schreiber Liquor Store Western Pro Hardware Store Garrity's Bar Schreiber Community Credit Union Photo Prints (Terrace Bay) and Mrs. Cindy Concil (White River) Thank you all for your support. Thank you The board, stuff, and residents of the Northshore Family Resource Centre of Marathon, wish to thank Sgt. Andy Templar presents Judy Bryson with a R.LD.E. Program : : : game with "Highway Rules". She was the first recipient on the North further information call 824-3380 Shore of the game which was donated by Northern Breweries during © Write: the Christmas season R.I.D.E. spot checks. of their violence located outside of themselves). 4. They tend to be impulsive. (i.e. make decisions without con- sidering the consequences). 5. They tend to feel isolated. 6. They tend to be excessively dependent upon and possessive of their partner (i.e. Frequently pre- occupied with their partner's whereabouts and activities - | | Photo by Paul Marcon Thank you Characteristics of men who batter their wife unable to experience themselves aid their partners as two separate individuals - this attitude is often -- encouraged by our socicty). 7. They have a nced to control situations and people by external control rather than sclf-control. 8. They tend to cxpress feel- ings as anger. : 9. They can be depressed and suicidal. 10. They can usc alcohol and drugs to lower their. inhibition against battering. With this character build up in mind, here are some thoughts a batterer could have about his behaviour. - There is no problem. -- lam not to blame. - It happened because we were fooling around, she slipped. - We were just having an argu- ment. - She won't leave me alone. She is always nagging me. - I don't hurt her. - What I do is no one else's business. It's my wife. It's my home. - I can criticize her, but she has no business complaining about what I do. If she knew her place and did her job properly, there'd be no problem. Wife assault is not a woman's private dilemma, it is a learned behavioural problem on the. bat- terer's part. Men who batter need to realize that they are responsible for their own actions. They are hurting their wives, their children, and themselves. Men who batter need to seek counselling to change their abu- sive behaviour. There are groups for "men who choose to batter" called First Step. The Thunder Bay First Step 'number is 623- 2218 and the Marathon First Step number is 229-0607. If you have questions or need Outreach Program Northshore Family Resource Centre Box 640 Schreiber, Ont. POT 2S0 . all the people responsible for the donations of clothing, household items, and toys, which have been received at the Centre.. These donations are of great assistance in helping women and their children to re-establish themselves in new lives, fre¢ of violence. Thank you! I would like to thank the doctors and nurses who cared for me during my operations and radiation treatments. I thank my family, relatives and friends who visited me in the hospital and at home, all those who sent flowers, fruit and cards. Many thanks to those who are praying for me. Sincerely Harold McParland . A Note of Thanks Randy & Wendy Krystia would like to thank all those who attended their wedding reception; November 18, The toll-free women's crisis line is 1-800-465-3307. Happy 60th Birthday -- "Wee" George Love The Hamilton Family Thank you I would like to acknowledge the Organizations, 1989. All gifts were wonderful and well appreciated. We would like to send a special thank you to Brenda Figliomeni for all her hard work decorating the hall, Pina Commisso fur preparing those terrific salads and Schreiber Food Market for the wonderful food trays. Businesses and Volunteers who contributed time, effort and goods and services to the Schreiber Parks and Recreation Holiday Program. Without you the children's program would not have been possible. Lordy, Lordy The Banker is 40! Schreiber Foodmarket Spadoni's Deptartment Store Lynne's Hairstyling 'Twinspot Pizza Rosie & Josie Restaurant Costa's Sportsworld Cebrario's Hardware The Bay Western Tire Voyageur Restaurant Villa Bianca Garrity's Pierre as Santa, Debbie Brosko, Rev. Bob Elkin, Jonathon Figliomeni, Mom & Me Program, Michele Godin, Mitch,.Bruce, Eric and Ron. Thank you Thank you to everyone for their kind expressions of sympathy on the death of my mother, Emma Bouchie. The cards anu donations were greatly appreciated. - Thank you for your support. Tamalea Meister Program Co-Ordinator _ t | Dennis Bouchie and family | |