7lHe4t QiLobbi^TMa "SMJlM I ANfc|£ HIRST ANNE HUKST Perhaps you, too, married one of ihoje inarticulate men who scenu to have forgotten how to kiss you, *nd never, never remembers to tell you he loves you. Read one wife's •omplaint: "I am 32, Anne Hirst. My mother died when I was born, and I can't ever remember my father telling me lie loved me. I have always felt unwanted, that no one cared for ine. Now I've been married 14 years, and have two girls. But I still feel the same way. "My husband doesn't drink or gamble or run around, and I know I'm lucky that he is good to me. I know he loves me â€" but I'd still like to hear l^im say so! I get up â- t four o'clock to pack his lunch â- nd get his breakfast; does he say 'thank you' and kiss mc good-bye? No. "Vou work hard all day cleaning â- the house, taking care of the chil- dren, fixing a nice supper. He eomes in, picks on the children till they cry, then raises cain because they aren't quiet while he eats. He talks only about his job. Never a word about how nice you look, or how the house shines, or how things went that day! "You say to yourself, 'Oh well, ht'll talk to me after supper! You're only kidding yourself. Then he wants the paper, and the children ^d I aren't supposed to talk out loud, or laugh, or sing. He reads the paper from front to back (in- •luding your column, so please print tliis; maybe he'll realize how nuoh we all miss his love.) "You think, after he's through, maybe he'll talk a while, or take I^u out. You guessed wrong. He foes to bed. How long can you a woman *Te like this? I'm not old yet. I ke to visit our friends or go to • show. But I could get along without those. It is the lack of love I feel. Why it a man so dumb that he can't »«y so? I can wear a new dress for a month before he even notices h! Some day I'm going to forget to clean up the house and the •hildren and see whether he knows the diference. (I doubt it.) "I guess there' no use in hop- ing. But at least I feel better to m*i this off my chest! Thanks a lot for reading it." CSigned) Loveless • TO "LOVEI-ESS": Women ♦ blossom under appreciation. A ♦ little word of thanks, a kiss given • as though the man means it. an * awareness of all you have done ♦ during the day â€" these small ♦ things are what keeps a wife ♦ young and alive and attractive. * Your husband is selfish, with- ♦ out meaning to be. Ilf takes • sverything that you do for grant- > ad, assumes that the home cleans • itself; he pays no attention to • his children â€" those youngsters • who would respond with love • and confidence if he would only • let them know he cares about • them. How much such a husband • and father misses in life! ... I • hope your husband reads this • today, and examines his attitude • toward you all. He does love you, • but, as )'0u sa}', why can't he say • • * Brief Answers â- * TO "A LONELY MAN," • "J. R., "A. J. E.." "T. A. P.": 1 • am sorry, but it is never possible • to reveal the identity of anyone • writing this column. • 'TO "OBEDIAH": I'm afraid • only a lawyer's advice can be • really useful now. I am terribly • sorry, and I do hope that things • will straighten out for you soon.. • TO "HEARTBROKEN B': • If you haven't done so already, • write this lad a nice apology for • your rudncss, and say that you • hope he will forgive you and be • friendly again. More than this you cannot sensibly do. To men readers: How long is it since you told your wife how yon appreciate all she is and does? Do you realize that is what she lives for? Think h over â€" and if you want to know how to cherish a wife, ask Anne Hirst. Address her at Box 1, 123 Eighteenth St. New Toronto, Ont, Modern Etiquette by Roberta Lee Q. How sliould the forks be ar- ranged at tlie plate, when setting th« table? A. Tha fork to b« used first is placed at the extreme left of the plate; this is usually for fish or ap- petizer. Second, towards the plate, place the meat fork; third, nearest the plate, the salad fork. Q. When writing a brief social letter, may one use the first and fourth pages? A. Yes, either the first and fourth or the first and third, leaving the other pages blank. Q. Is it all right for a ivoman, who is dining in a restaurant, to place her purse on the table? A. No, never. The purse should be kept in her lap. Q. When introducing two per- sons, is it proper to say,- "Mr. Brown, I wish to make you acquain- ted with Mr. Smith?" A. This phrase could not exactly be called improper, but the prevail- ing introduction and the easiest is merely, "Mr. Brown, Mr. Smith." Q. Is it permissible for a business or professional woman, who mar- ries, to retain her maiden name for business purposes? A. Yes; this is often done, when the maiden name has become estab- lished and has advertising value. Q. May a woman retain her coat in a restaurant, instead of checking it? A, Yes; it may be slipped over the back of her chair. Q. Should all mcn\bers of the family remain at the table until the meal is finished, even if there are no guests. A. Yes; this is good training. The person who is not well-bred when at home ia likely to display the same manners ;when in public. CROSSWORD PUZZLE AOBoaa 1. .Sunken t^n^^ C .Sour • - Ononinff It. Hehrow l«uw II. Itodsnl M Sollil w«t«r 16 Pronoun H«n<l . Unevon SI Iriurtiv* « MIylo Iti .vnd (r«< > S« Worlhlea.-i (tn« 27 r.roiin'l pln« tS. ('ovftr wtlh fftam Ml Ily M. CaauaT ohsftrvaiUtn U Wv«rla«thi« f*'r ) \S l,an<1 m*A«,ui « ri (un*w M t'oll*rt4Ml at faetM M ttr w»y or 41. Kiii'upeait loiinfrT <»•».♦ V- 1'*>P rar(lt4 n Cut (>r ni«A( A Holftnft lAAthtil 4S Ni>irativ« S. <'nllai|i> iS««r<a . Mi>r*f>Tcr SHansliatl t4««n . Vapor TiiIb of <iilv«nlti>« H. r.'ha.ui'tri i A>Hf6rt« r. I, Driod iiriM« L R«rera«r« t. i'ronoun 4, liuiniuK I. lOxelamaitoa 1. MillliMrr Hiuderica T. An«pr I Fraarll* 8. Donor M. 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TABLE TALKS As I think I may have told you before I'm the sort of person who can take my peanut butter or leave it alone â€" preferably the latter. However, that by no means indicates that there aren't .plenty of others who do like it very mucli. in fact it seems to become more and more popular every year. So perhaps you'd like to have this recipe for easily made; PEANUT BUTTER MUFFINS 2 cup sifted aU-purpose flfcur or 'lYi, cups sifted pastry I'lour 4 teaspoons baking powder 3 tablespoons sugar 1 teaspoon salt 1 egg '/J cup peanut butter 2-3 cup milk Yt cup water 1 tablespoon shortening, melted Mix and sift flour, baking powder, sugar and salt. Beat egR until light then add peanut butter, milk, water and melted shortening. Add liquid to flour mixture all at once, stir- ring only cuoukIi to combine. Fill greased inuffin tins 2-3 full and bake in a hot oven over 400 F., for 20 minutes. Yield: 12 muffins. VARIATIONS: To make a de- licious sweet muffin to serve for tea or supper, fill iiiufl'in tins 1/.^ full with the above nii.xture, .\cld Vi teaspoon jam or jelly to each muffin, then add more batter until miiffii\ tins are 2-3 full. * * * You've prol)al)ly hoard of the small boy who was taken to a museum where they had an e.xhibit of many different sorts of fish â€" stuffed and nioinited. Pau.sinp be- fore one Libelled "S.ALMON" he said scornfully, "Whoever put that sign up must be goofy; I tliougl\t everybody knew that salmon eomes in cans." And although the development of the Frozen Food business has made fresh fish far more easily avail- able, there are still a lot of us. who live inland, wlio still gfet most of the fish we eat out of cans. Here's a way of serving it that may be new to some of you. SALMON ROLL 1 pound can salmon (or any other fisli. flaked and bonedl Yi, cup mayonnaise 2 tablespoons chopped parsley Ji teaspoon sah 1 teaspoon lemon juice 1 teaspoon minced onion dash of pepper Biscuit dough. METHOD: Mix all the ingredi- ents together until well blended, then make your favourite biscuit dogli. Roll out into a 7xlS inch rectangle and transfer to a lightly greased heavy baking sheet Spread salmon mixture down centre of doucfli to within two inches of either end. Fold over the edges. Roll over so Icngtvvhise seam is underneath. Tuck the ends under the roll. Make slashes along top for steam to es- cape Bake 12 to 15 minutes at 425 degrees. Place on hot serving dish. Garnish with lemon wedges and parsley. Serve hot with creamed vegetables, such as peas or aspara- gus. Serves six to eight. * * • There are probably hundreds of different types of Cookie Jars, but they all seem to have one thing in conm'on. Especially in homes where there are youngsters around, they all have a way of getting empty in amazingly little time. Next time it liappens in your home, try these: MOLASSES DROP COOKIES 1 cup lat or shortening 1 cu]) sugar 2 cgi;s. beaten 1 cup molasses 5 cups all-purpose flour 1 tablespoon ginger 1 teaspoon sal* 1 tablespoon soda. 2 cnps chopped raisins or dates. 2 cups chopped nutme.its (optionaH 1 Clip \vartn water. MKl HOD: Cream fat and sugar; add egK^ and molasses. Sift flour with giiiRcr. salt and soda. Al- ternately add flour and water to the fat, sugar and egg mixture. Mix well. Add raisins aiul nuts. Drop by teaspooiifuls on lightly greased baking sheet. Bake at 375 degrees for 10 to 15 minutes, or until cook- ies spiing back when lightly touch- ed. When cool put in cookie jar and try and tliiiik of new place to hide it. GENTLE SPRING Watchmakers have their own sign of springâ€" the mainspring. When a dtlngc of watches with broken mainsprings arrives at their shops, they know the vernal season is at hand Spring thunderstorms and showers bring an abrupt change in temperature and air pressure, and t«x the brittle Meel ribbons nntil they snap. • * * An obstetrician should be able to till the arrival of spring by observ- ing thv size of Iht babies he delivers. Infants born in the spring art taller and heavier, on the averagi, than those born in other seasons, accord- ing to statistical studies made at Johni Hopkifli University. • ♦ ♦ It's a common belief that many psople suffer from extreme fatigue when spring arrives â€" lo-called spring fever. But a biologist at Rensselaer Polytechnic reports that then beliefs are In error. Spring fever Is only a mild form «f iciir?/, he declares, due to vitamin-poor diet in winter months â€" particular- ly, vitamin C deficiency. * ♦ ♦ Police in Whte Plains, N.Y., don't bother to watch for a robin. When they begin to receive complaints that baby carriages are interferinf with pedestrian traffic mi Main Street, tliey are sure spring has arrived. CORRECT Heedless of an Impatient queue bthind him, a Scotchman at a Grand Central ticket window oount- ed his change very carefully three timti. Tile ticketseller watched him sourly. "Well," he said, "are you Nntlly satisfied It's rightV "Aye, mon," sild the Scot angrily, "b«t only just right." IS8UB If I04* COCKER SPANIELS Of all the dogs that are so sweet. The spaniel is the most complete; Of all the spaniels, dearest far The little Cocker spaniels are. They're always merry, always hale; Their eyes are like October ale; They are so loyal and so black; So unresentful 'neath the whack; They never sulk, they never tire; They love the field, they love the fire; They never criticize their friends; Their every joy all Joy transcends. The Aberdeen is quaint and sly, A harvest of the anxious eye; The Bedlington is blue and true; The Airedale fights till death for you; Yet why compare? All dogs on earth Possess some special charm and worth. But Cocker spaniels? Every way, They are the canine angels, they. Helpful Hints For Homemakers When baking custard or pumj^kft pies, place the empty pie shell in the oven first, then pour the licjuid fill- ing into it. Not a drop will be spill- ed, as miglit happen in carrying a filled shell to the oven. • • ' To get rid of the smel! of fish on your hands, wash them in fiotj salty water â€" before using soap. When you rinse off the salt, the fish smell goes with it. Do the same with dishes and pans that have been used for fish. * • • When you carry Baby, wrap a" piece of clear plastic material (a small-sized tablecloth would work fine) around the outside of the blankets. This, prevents lint aa4 blanket fuzz from rubbing off ont* your clothing. 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I9aut< H t. chopped celery and 1 sliced small onion In S tbs. hot fat. Add to frankfurter mixture and combine; season with salt and pepper. Let stand while you make MAGIC BISCUIT DOUGH: Mix and sift together once, then sift into bowl, 3 o. once-sifted pastry flour (or 2 M «. ODce-sifted hard-wheat flour), 4 tap. Magic Baking Powder, ^ tap. salt, K tap. dry mustard. Cut in finely 8 tbe. abor- tening. Make a well in centre, pour in 1 a. milk and mix lightly with a fork. Lina greased loaf pan (4M x 8H Inchea) with two-thlrda of dough. Fill with meat mixture and top with remaining dough, sealing edgea; slaah to allow sooape of steam. Bake in a hot oven, 4S0*, about SO minutes. Serve with tomato sauce. Yield â€" 4 or 6 servlogs. ^S\5jSS.i CINNAMON BUNS RICH, SPICY Recip* Measura into lars* bowl, 1 •. luke- warm watar, 1 la|<a. granttlatad euaaurt stir until sugar te dissolTsd. Sprinkle with 2 enrelopea Flelsnhmann'a Royal Fast Rishic Dry Yeast. Lst stand 10 min., THSN stir well. Bosld 1 o. milk and stir in ^ e. (rmnuiated sucar, IM taps, salt, 6 tbs. shortening; oool to lukewarm. Add to yaaat mixture end stir In I well-beaten eggs. Stir in S e. once-sifted bread flour; beat until amooth. Work in 8 o. mora onue-aifted bread flour. Knecul until imooth and elastio; piaoe in greased bowl and bruah top with melted butter or short- ening. Cover and eet ia warm place, &ee from draught. Let rise until doubled la bulk. While dough la rising, combine IH e. brown sugar (lightly preeeed down), 8 tepe. ground cinna- mon, 1 0. waahed and dried seedlees raisins. Punq^^own dough and divids Into 3 equal portions; form into smooth balla. Roll each piece into an ol>long K" thick and 16" loo(: looeea dough. Bruah with malted butter or tnargsrlna. Sprinkle with raisin mix- ture. Beginning at a long edge, roll up each piece loosely, like i jelly roll..Cut Into 1" alloea. Place Just touching each oilier, a out-aide up, in greased 7" round layar-oeke pans (or other ahallow pans). Qreaaa tops. Cover and let riaa until doubled hi bulk. Bake in moderate oven, SBO', 20-2S minutes. Serve hot, or reheated. o e NEW FAST-ACTINO DRY YEAST NEEDS NO REFRIGERATIONI Stays fresh and full-strength on your pantry shelf for weeks! Here's all you do: la a small amount (usually specified) of lukewarm water, dis- solve thoroughly Iteaspooo sugar for each envelope of yeast. Sprinkle with dry yeast. Let stand 10 minutes. THHN stir well. (The water used with the yeast «)unts ;is part of the total liquid called for in your recipe.) < Get «9 n7o/?t6Ss st/fip/y/ * « a -4 « 1 â- « •^ A. •%. t- 1 "%. '^ » • • J c fr , • ' 4 1 « • 1 « ♦ \ ♦ « « ft « * â- ». ♦ ft