THE FLESHERTON ADVANCE. ADVICE TO GIRLS By Rosalind KmgUttnd AceorMnt to tht Copy right Act Dear Oirls:â€" This la just a little personal note to all my readers â€" ^to tell you that I am glad yon lllce the column and to assure yoa that I am enjoying It very much myself. I have heard people sneer at columns such as oura, but that was because those people never reaUzed that there are thousands of people who have no one to whom they may turn for advice; and because these scoffers did not know that even if one has plenty of advisers there are some things It is heaps easier to tell to a stranger. I know that three-quarters of my letters come just because I do not know the people who write or the circum- stances which have caused them to seek advice. But whatever your reason for writing, I am glad to do what I can, and I shaU advise you to the best of my ability on whatever subject you choose to talk about. Your letters have to be forwarded to me and I find that quite a number have gone astray. Please write again, and mark your en- velope very plainly, "To KosSr- lind. 516 Mf""<"g Chambers, To- ronto." BOSALIND. Dear Bosalind: â€" I have seen your advice to girls and as I am u» trouble and have no mother to turn to, I seek your advice. I am 16 years of age, and moat people con- sider me pretty. 1 have a number of boy friends, one o£ whom I think a great deal of. He is very refined and gentlemanly and is nearly 18. A short time ago he proposed to me. I told him I would have to consider it. I really love him dearly and I am sure he loves me. Should I accept himi Ol course we intend to wait a few years yet. Hoping to see my answer in the paper soon. TESSIE. Dear Tessie: â€" I am BO sorry there is no mother to talk it over with. Just look around, Tessie, and see if there isn't some dear, sympathetic friend that will give you just the helpful counsel you need. I am quite, quite sure you are too young to be engaged. Such an early engage- ment would cheat you out of years of good times and make you mature and settled far too soon. Boy friends are splendid things for girls to have and I am sure you could have plenty. Have joUy good fun with them aU and get in with a good bunch of young folks who go out together. When you are 20 is plenty of time to think about "real proposals." Write me again and tell me more about the young folks in the town. EOSAtlND. Dear Bosalind: â€" It is unusual for me to apply through these columns for any assist- ance, yet if any good can be rendered your favors wiU be much appreciated. I am one of those young men who who has not to any extent courted the favors and company of young ladies, for one reason that under the present restricted social conventionality it is somewhat difficult to become intro- duced to a real nice young lady, more particularly as I am rooming out. A man who is refined and respectful will hardly converse with any girl unless he has been introduced or knows con- ditions are conducive. Also one may go to church like I do, but, as a rule, he invariably cannot tell who a cer- tain young lady may be. Could you in any way acquaint me with a young lady who is mutually in- cUned; prefer oue about 25 or so, who is well educated, reHned, and with some m-usical talent. I can give any particulars desirable and open to any enquirv necessary. Your favors will be esteemed and kindlv reply by next issue. kinttiy repiy »3 eNQUIBEB. Dear Enquirer: â€" Now you have put me in a queer box! I am just aching to help you, to find some nice girl who is just in the same predicament as yourself, and to introduce vou to each other that you may become friends. And how can IT Just as surely as I do that for you, a dozeu others will ask that the same be done for them. And 1 cannot be sure that all are genuine, and the right kind of person to be introduced by let- ter to a nice girl. So there you are I I just have to leave it at that, En- quirer. There is a chance that the Bight Girl may see you- letter and write to me. Have you read Bertha Buck's new book, "Sweethearts Un- met"! It deals with your very prob- lem. Good luckl BOSALIND. "E A. S." and "Jack Horner"â€" You did not give me your full name and address. I never publish these, but I expect them to bo given me in every letter as evidence of good faith. Write again^ BOSALIND. THE WEONG BIBD. One of Booker Washington's best Storiesâ€" a joke at the expense of his own raceâ€" is quoted in Frederick Lvnch's "One Great Society." A negro was asked by a white citizen to supplv his family with turkeysâ€" tame ones, 'not wild, the latter being occa- sionally in the market. One week a member of the family found some shot in his portion of the bird. "The turkey vendor was expostulated with, ' ' You sent us a wild turkey this time; there were shot in it." The negro scratched his head. " 'Deed no', boss," he explained, "dat was a tame bird all right. Dat •hot was meant for me." Inner tubes for automobile tires arc made by the yard, and at one large rubber factory in Ohio a gang of men In a eaU«ndering machine rolled cot 24,450 yards of tube stock daring the month ol February. THE SUNDAY SCHOOL LESSON. Lesson m. July 18. DAVID SFAB£S SAUL'S UTS. Lessonâ€" 1 Eamuel 26. Printed Text â€" 1 Sam. 26: 7-17, 21. Golden Text â€" "Love your enemies, do good to them that hate you" (Luke 6: 27). Historical Setting. Timeâ€" 1065 B. C. Place.â€" HiU of Hachilah. Daily Beadlngs. Monday, July 12. â€" David Spares Saul's Life (1 Sam. 26: 1-12). Tues THE CARE AND FEEDING OF CHILDREN By ELINOR MURRAY Registered According to Copyright Act. child will require punishment at 3ome time. It is absolutely certain that some time, from some source, in some way, he will receive his share of the world's discipline. In babyhood it is light; later it is severe. In babyhood ....... ., â€" .*w * ^^^. â€" .. *- . »-_» there are no bad habits to combat; day^ JuTy'lal'-^aur at" David's Mercy j '''ter the habits are a part of the child. (1 Sam, 24: 1-12). Wednesday, July IJi babyhood the grief is soon forgot- 14.â€" David Puts Saul to Shame (1 'eii; 1^"^, humiliation and resentment Sam. 24: 16-22). Thursday, July 15.â€" | 'i^e in the heart, and often embitter BABY DISCIPLINB. It is perfectly safe to say that every THE TIME IS NIGH TO SWAT THE FLY ThisX Annual Pest Gives None a Rest Soak Him Early, Soak Him Late, That's What Health Officials State David Reproves Saul (1 Sam. 2(3: 13 25). Friday, July 16. â€" Love Your En- emies (Matt. 5: 38-48). Saturday, July 17. â€" Jesus and His Enemies tMatt. 26: 47-56. Sunday, July 18.â€" Vengeance is Mine (Eom. 12: 9-21). the dearest ties. lu view of these truths, the fact that we do not wish to punish the baby becomes the chief reason why we ought to discipline him. If we wait until we wish to punish him, our own motives are degrading. What should be educational becomes D EAR, dear, what can the matter be, Johnny's so long at the bam. He promised to come with the horse and the cutter; He must have been telling a yam. Fve waited and waited~all ready, you see. 1 wish that I knew what the matter could be. Find Johnny and a friend. Lower side down, on lacket sl«eve; upper side down, along amv Verse 7. After parting with -lona- 1 . ^^.^^^.^ „^^ judgment than, David lied southward toward .^^^^^^ ^^ ,„ ^^ ^^^^{^ Philistia into enemv eountrv. baul was 'induced to pursue' him. 'That Saul I There is nothing more beautiful than should pursue him the second time ^ baby just learning to talk and begin- without reason was difficult for David \ °^ng '" ^^'^ about. He has so many to beUeve. He resolved to investigate. I etarming ways, and each new accom- Abishai was David's nephew and a p'ishment is so absorbingly interesting, devoted follower. Abner was Saul's ^' t^^e ^e^^ "orst, his misdemeanors; father's brother and commander-in- i do not irritate us, and usually they are | chief of Saul's army (,1 Sam. 14: 50). ^^^7 funny. | Verse 8. Da\-id was adventurous. I I' '» ^^^ pleasanter and easier to di- i He had opportunity to kill Saul, but re- v"' "^^ "^^^'^ attention from wrong- i frained. Abishai wanted to make j '^oi^ig than to take him seriously; and quick work of it and prove his loyalty SO' 8"»°« ^^^'^ '« °° good stopping- j to David. Friendship is powerful. ' P'^^e, he is coaxed and indulged until i T- n »u- V • ,• • . 1 he is no longer a babv. Then w« find Verse 9. Abishai was religious in J j,_^^ ^^^ j^^^.^^ ^j^^^ ^^^^ amusing in a nerce fashion; David in a manner j ^j^^ two-vearold cease to be funnv at: more thoughttul. , , «, i f^"'' <" fi'«. and at seven or eight they , Verse 10- David still respected Saul ! ,, j^ ^^ ^'^ unendurable. It is a sad 1 as king. The beliet of the time was ^ » ^^ punishment usuallv begins at that the person of the anointed king was inviolable, that his welfare was in Jehovah's hands (1 Sam. 25: 38). The belief was that the king could not be injured with impunity. an age when there should be no fur ther occasion for it. and when it often does more harm than good. As the | baby faults grow more and more irri I nMnii iiiiiHHiHiiiiiiHiiHiHHininriiinmiiHiinwHimmiHiHiiiiiiiiiiiiiw Chop left-over beets and mix with : mashed potatoes hot for the late din- half the same proportion of horserad- ! ner guest is to place the covered dish ish for a delicious relish to serve with | of potatoes in a larger dish of hot wa- lish or meat. ter and set on back of the stove. Any sliced cold meat may be trans- formed into an excellent hot dish by Making Butter You will be surprised to see how much .^^ -"j''-'-± •-"" â€" tf'-^-j- tating, the chUd himself grows less' Verse ll.-David was very careful , ^„^ \^^ appealing. We can punish to refrain trom seeming to be baul'Sj ^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^ ^„ 3^,^ ^^^^ ..^' !""v?,f-n n Tu i?^"V^'^r,"'^^kM of ^'^ age ought to know better," to kiU David, but aU the time David | ^j^^ |^ ^^^ ^^ jj ^^^^ i,e hard to ! from taking advantage of i j^^^ ^ is Vurelv no fault of the nty and overthrowing feaul. L i.,-ij »uot „„„o„.^«„,..ni,i „on„i,f;no=<= refrained his popularity and overthrowing oaui. i ^^^ ^^^^ geven-vear-old naughtiness -No traveler ventures upon the deserts j^ ,^33 attractive 'than that of babv without his ^ter-jar. ^^^^ ^^^ [^^bit you know is a power Verse 12. haul, as king of Israel i f^j antagonist. was the very heart of the nation. [ David could have killed him, but did dipping the slices in egg and line butter a few left-over bits of cream rumbs and browning In a little fat in the frying pan. Serve with toma- to sauce, heated. The centres of canned pears may be filled with chopped ginger and nuts for a quick, easy dessert. Left-over spinach, finely chopped and added to thin, well seasoned white sauce, garnished with pieces of pimen- to, makes an attractive and delicious soup. Economize on fuel by arranging to bake your entire meal in the oven, or to cook it all on top of the stove, i'ur- ther fuel economy may be practised by cooking a steamed dessert over the boiling vegetables. Better Brown Bread. To avoid having a hole in the cen- tre of your brown bread let the bread stand in the tins for twenty or thirty minutes before steaming. Serving Fish. Serve all short-grained fish by cut- ting them lengthwise. Use a wide silver fish knife, being careful not to break the bundle* of flakw. will yield if allowed to sour in a small bottle with a screw top and then shaken vigorously for a few minutes. not. The opportunity may be inter- preted as a test of David's charac- ter. Verses 13, 14. As commander-in- chief it was Abner 's duty to watch over and protect his king. Verse 15. ••The circumstances of David's having penetrated to the cen- ter of the encampment, through the circular rows of the sleeping soldiers, constituted the point of this sar- casm." Verses 16, 17. Both Saul and David stamped their personalities upon the people. Every nation's leader does this to a certain extent. Israel's history is a history of monarchs, her ideals the ideals of her leaders. Verse 21. ' ' Nothing can be more full and ingenuous than this confes Moist Layer Cake. The more butter you use in mak- ing a layer cake, and the less liquid other than beaten eggs the longer the cake will keep moist and fresh. Miring Fruit Cake. When mixing fruit cake or other stiff dough, a lot of labor and time will be saved if you use your bread mixer. Also the dough will be much smoother. A HOUSEHOLD HINT. They had been dining in state in the dining car. Husband, who is a teacher of Knglish, was glad that little daugh- ter had behaved so perfectly. Mother also was in a happy frame of mind. There were numerous other diners in the car, and the parents were ptond of their child. Not a single thing haa liappencd to mar the serenity of the occasion. Finally the meal was over and they started to leave the car. Their way tcok them past all of the other tables. Suddenly the little girl felt impelled to ask a question. "Mother," she called in a shrill voice, "aren't we going to wash the dishes?" THE SUNDAY NE'WSPAPEBS, ^From the Manufacturers' Hecord.) > If the policy adopted by Marshall Field i Co. of not only refusing to ad- i vertise in the Sunday papers, but of [ oven lowering the curtains of their j great show windows from Saturday | night until Monday morning, in order that they might not be an advertise- ment of the firm, was generally car- ried into effect, ^«at a marvelous change would take place throughout the country. The Sunday newspaper is an over- grown production of late years. We believe that in its present size it is a distinct disadvantage to the best in- ; terests of the newspapers of the coun- | try. If modern conditions demand that the world shall on Sundav have 1 sion. " Saul was fickle and insincere. 1 some of the news of the preceding 24 He soon forgot his promise Illustrated Truth. hcurs, a condensed presentation through a Sunday morning paper It is the opportunitv to do wrong 7°"'^ ,'^"'='^"'-^ ^.\ ^"' objectionable to our own advantage" that tests th? ! ""au the stuff which is now furnished soul (v 34) ^'^ Sundav papers, with their 30 and lUust^ation.-It is a sign of nobility *" ""^ ^? '"^, '^^ ^^f ^'' '^''""" " of character when one rises to the ' '« ^•'â- '^>- ''''^K"^'^ '" '^' ^""''"-^ P^P" The season of the fly is here, the health officials say, in a bulletin on house flies. If you want to be a cred- it to your country, town and city, you will swat the little critter â€" swat him early, swat him late. For the house fly is a menace; he's not fit tu be around, so the thing to do is swat him wherever he is found. "Here's news about the house fly," remarked the City Ed. ' ' Can 't yon boil it down and tell us what the health officials said?" Oh, gentle reader, take the word of one who read the pamphlet through, the house fly never, never should as- sociate with you, or with your kith and kin, your food, or anything that your 's. So strive to see that he is killed or else kept out of doors. If half the things they say are true â€" and who would dare to doubt 'emf â€" the other half don't matter; you don 't need to know about 'em. Just think: A normal female fly thinks nothing, so they say, of laying eggs in wholesale lots, ten dozen in a day. These eggs hatch out in no time when the weather is warm, and five days after that the new born flies begin to swarm. And so it goes, more flies, more eggs, from AprU to September, till the total score gets higher than most mamma flies remember. The sci- entists, however, have it down in black and white and the figures as they foot 'em up are herewith brought to' light. Ten trillion flies, the records show, may spring from one fly 's laying â€" which makes some crop, some family tree, some bunch, as goes the saying. It Would Take Some Swat. That isn't all. In forty days, the health sharps estimate, one ilv would make 12,000,000 flies, 800 pounds by weight. To kill 800 pounds of flies-^ though believe it you may not â€" would take, the scientists assert, considerable swat. And as we're not ail Babe Rutlis or Ping Bodies with the bat, we will start our swatting early if we know what we are at. Screens and poisons, traps and stiek- um (it is written), help a lot, but there's nothing so effective as the good old-fashioned swat. For you can 't reform the house fly; it 's a thing that can 't be done. All attempts have met with failure since the days of Babylon. Bead your Bible; read how Moses walloped Phar- aoh 'twiit the eyes with one plague upon another, worst of all the plague of flies. Head how flies made life a torture even in the Promised Land, bringing germs to countless thousands gathered in that happy strand. And there might have been more swatting if they'd had the proper club â€" as it was, they named the devil Lord of Flies, Beelzebub. All of which you'll find recorded in the Health Board Bulletin. Buy it, steal it, get it, read it â€" and digest the facts therein. Then go out and swat the housefly, swat and show 'em you're no dub, for by swatting every housefly vou will swat Beelzebub. â€" F. W. opportunity to do a meritorious thing. It is also a sign of nobility to refuse to stoop to the opportunitv to do , . .^. . .u .. , , 1 An old horseman was exhibit- big "ties of the country would be paper that the shortage of news paper is due, and we believe that the publish- es of the great daily papers of the Hot Mashed Potatoes. A simple but effective way to keep SHIFTING THE SCENEKY. Sir Harry Lauder golfs with more enthusiasm than skill, and one day on the links in Washington he was in unusually bad form. At the fourth hole Sir Harry dis- lodged an unusually large sod. The sod rose up into the air and sailed like a great bird down the wind, and Sir Harry '3 caddy, watching it, said to his coiapanion: ' ' Did you tell me that guy was an actor, Petef" "Sure, Bill," said the other caddy, a note of apology in his voice. ' ' An actor â€" that's what they call him," The first caddy took a thoughtful chew of tobacco. â- • I 'd call him a scene shifter, ' ' he said. wrong. ing a horse to a would-be purenaser. "You think he would make a 3.afe driv- ing horse?" questioned the latter. ' ' Oh, yes. I have had the horse for a good while, and he has given me no trouble." "Then, that settles it," said the latter. The old horseman hesitated. "No, it doesn't," he ad- mitted. ''I wouldn't give any horse a certificate of good character till I had seen what he would do with a good chance to run." Topics for Research and Discussion. 1. Saul Sound Asleep (vs. 7-11). 1. What became of David after he left Jonathan ? 2. Why did Saul pursue David? 3. Who were Abishai and Abner? 4, Was David unfair in his attitude toward Saul? serving their own best interests and tlie country at large if they would re- duce by one-half or two-thirds the size of their Sundiiy papers. And so far ;i» advertising is concerned, we be- lieve that the statement of Marshall Field & Co. as to their views in regard to the matter will awaken a wide- aprcad interest among many other business men. 2. David Very Much Awake (vs. 12-16). 5. What was David's plan in approaching Saul while the latter was asleep ? 6. Why could Saul not succeed in capturing David? 3. Saul's Inconsistency (vs. 17-211. 7 Why was Saul sometimes for and sometimes against David? AT.T. AT.IK K Lady Astor, the -Vmerican M. P., told in London the other day a story about an anti-suffragist. "Anti-suffragists are all alike," she said. ' • Once I was canvassing for signatures to a petition about Lord Milner, the viceroy to India at that time. When I called on Mr. Boggs, the grocer, he read the petition care- fully, and then said: ••Who is this here Milner, ma'am?" • • • Our Indian viceroy, ' said I. • ' • Wot 's a viceroy ? ' said Mr. Boggs. " 'A pro-consul, you know.' .\nd explained Lord Miluer's position in detail. ••Mr. Boggs, satisfied, dipped his pen in the ink; then he looked up anx- iously. '••You're not lettin' the women sign this, are vou?' he said. " 'Ob, no, indeed,' said I. " 'That's right,' said Mr. Boggs, as he slowly traced his signature. •That's right, ma'am. Women don't know nothiu' about these things.'" POEMS YOU SHOULD KNOW. | [William Ernest Henley was born in Kugland about ISoO. In ISSS he became editor of the Scots Observer, and iu the same year published his first volume of poems, "A Book of Verses." He is a writer and a critic as well as a poet.] iNvicrus. Out of the night that covers me, ^ Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul. In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud; Under the bludgeonings of chance My head is bloody, but unbow'd. Beyond this place of wrath and tears Looms but the korror of the shade, And yet the menace of the years Finds and shall find mo unafraid. It matters not how straight the gate, Hew ehanged with punishments the scroll, I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul. â€" W. B. Henlev. They All Believe in Advertising The^rwise manufacturer does. He hasfseen adver- tising make his factory grow from rear-attic to city-block dimensions. The wise jobber does. Try to stock him on an un- known article and hear him say: "How about your advertising.!)" The wisefmerchant does. He has seen the goods that moved slowly begin to move quickly when advertising brought| the customers in legion. The wise customer does. He has compared the safety, service and satisfaction found in advertised goods with the disappointments of unbranded, unknown articles. You cannotfhelp believing in advertising. You have had the same opportunity to compare and prove. x\re you watching the columns of your newspaper for the myriad helpful suggestions the advertise- ments offer?